Tuesday, December 22, 2009

The Year Ahead

I had every intention to write a yummy Christmas or holiday post. But the moment I had a moment I found myself without words.

As this time of year does for many, I needed to absorb the events of 2009. The saying of not knowing where we are going without really understanding where we have been prompted me to reflect where I had been. So that the adventures of 2010 could begin.

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2009 turned out to be a year where I connected my heart to my head.
Such a short space but a long, sometimes painful and frustrating journey.

For most of my life both functioned very well but not always side by side.
It has been my year where I have had many lessons that have lead up to me having clarity of the true meaning of faith, pride, humility, strength, truth, trust, and compassion. With the clarity of these emotions I had to change some behaviors of mine.

All the years before that I have thought I could and should make the impossibles happen, or even what shouldn't happen, happen. I finally grasped that life does have its own course regardless of my will.

And my role is to show up, do what I know is the right thing to do, and to trust and accept the outcome will be what is right.

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Shabby Chic has been my home to create romance, beauty and magic in my life.

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Vignettes in my stores are moments of fantasy that can be transported into our real lives and homes. I find myself appreciating how vital the importance of feeding our eyes and souls with beauty and comfort.

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I have always looked at theatre for my inspiration. For handmade details and unique palette. but the notion of a mask is one I profoundly connect with. Something we all need, from time to time.

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With so much reality entertainment, HD quality TV and twittering instant news as it happens, the quality of fantasy through an old leather bound book or an imperfect grainy movie has been compromised for making things too real. Magic and dreams are being lost. We must keep our shabby world imperfect.

Sometimes in 2009 I have felt a profound sadness.
Sometimes loss.

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Sometimes fear.
Sometimes really tired.
And this has lead me to surrender. And in doing so I have found the time for gentle gratitude.

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Through everything. The one constant, is always to dream.

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"To those who can dream, there is no such place as far away".
I included this quote in my latest book.

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72 comments:

  1. I hope you had a lovely Christmas Rachel, I know you must have missed your mum so much.

    As I typed this, my gorgeous daughter ran up to me, kissed me and told me she loved me! Unconditional love indeed. I am lucky.

    Wishing you all the very best for 2010. You deserve a wonderful year.

    Sadie x

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  2. Rachel,

    What a beautiful post, with beautiful pictures, memories and advice...

    I hope you have a blessed New Year~

    HuGS!!

    Keke

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  3. Rachel..
    so eloquently beautiful..
    simply stated..
    deeply..
    from the heart..
    well you connected with me..
    all my feelings..
    and thoughts..
    exactly..
    thanks from the bottom of my heart..
    Happy New Year..
    from me to you!
    warm hugs..laughing smiles..
    Loui♥

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  4. My mom has a hand-painted plaque by my grandma which reads, "Life is fragile...handle it with prayer." I have always loved that.

    May God bless you and your loved ones each and every moment of the New Year!

    : )

    Julie M.

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  5. Rachel,
    I wish you all the best for 2010,for you,your children and your father. Joy and hapiness in your everyday life... Bonne Année from France !

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  6. What a great post Rachel, straight from the heart.
    I wish you health, happiness & laughter in 2010 along with loads of personal success.
    Sarah
    www.shabbyrosesandprettythings.blogspot.com
    P.S: Is there any chance of you making the trip to Australia in 2010? We would love to meet you!

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  7. Rachel, I am very inspired by your blog and was a dedicated viewer of your TV show Shabby Chic. I love your philosophy and your creativity and I feel a connection, a kindred spirit likely!
    My heart goes out to you in your struggle and I am confident that your strength will stand you in good stead. You have endured challenges in the past and possess the tools to do so again.
    Your vignettes elevate simple and unexpected items which you arrange to create beauty.
    I wish you a healthy happy and prosperous New Year!

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  8. A lovely post! Merry New Year! ~Mandy

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  9. Rachel-I am so happy that you have re-emerged stronger than ever. I have always been a big fan of your style, from the day I first laid eyes on the elegant sofa in your Chicago store about 11 years ago ( that sofa ended up in my home!) Your words are beautiful - may you enjoy a great 2010!

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  10. I enjoy your blog so much and anxiously wait for your new poetry to be expressed..Thank you for your commitment to everything that is beautiful..lulu

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  11. Merry Christmas to you Rachel & a VERY happy New Year....!!!

    May 2010 be 'the' year for you...!

    Warmest wishes from Australia,
    Tamarah :o)

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  12. Dear Rachel,
    Happy New Year to you and your family, and staff. As one of your boutique store customers I thank you for bringing the beauty of Shabby Chic back to us. Your posts are always very beautiful, inspirational and thought provoking. I recently purchased some of your vintage china and thank you for parting with some very beautiful vintage treasures. They will be cherished. As a mother, with 2 children the same age as yours I can agree that there is nothing better than just holding their hand. All the best to you in the coming year.

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  13. Your words have never been truer. This is what life is about...smelling the roses along the path.

    May you find the sweetest smelling roses.

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  14. Truly a beautiful post. Honest and heartfelt. 2009 has not been my best year (family break-up etc), but your post rang true with me for a better 2010, and being true and strong to myself.

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  15. Happy New Year Rachel..thank you for allowing us along on your journey..take care and go forward..

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  16. BEautiful post! HOpe your 2010 is filled with happiness!

    happy new year!

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  17. I sit here looking over at my Rachel Ashwell Books (5) on my bookcase in my design office and want you to know I have been inspired by you so many times, I leave you with a wish for the best year to come in 2010...
    Many Shabby Design Days,
    Many hugs, Carol Ann

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  18. A lovely post. May next year be full of happiness for all of us. Wishing you a beautiful 2010!

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  19. Merry Christmas & Happy Holidays to you and your family with many blessings and wishes for 2010.
    With love and wishes from 'Down Under' ~ Nessy (Australia)

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  20. May 2010 be a wonderful year filled with happiness and love for you and your family ! May all you wishes come true !

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  21. HI Rachel,
    What a year 2009 was, many seem to have had a hard year... I too have had a difficult time, and have learnt so much about life. The biggest thing I think I would like to share with you is.. to nuture and be kind to yourself. We tend to forget to do that at times. I truley hope that 2010 will bring you peace, joy, and that you prosper. May it be all that you could hope for and more. Thank you for allowing us to share your world, inspiration, putting yourself out there and showing your vunerablity, strength (in itself i find inspiring as the loss of our business to fire is slowly healing), grace and faith
    Sending you much love
    may god bless and keep you and yours.
    Vicki xxx

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  22. I always thought New Years Resolutions were just for weight issues or annoying vises that needed our attention, but reading your blog lately, New Years can be a life marker where we really make a promise to ourselves to understand the lessons of the Year, and not go back, not repeat mistakes, work only to go forward from this place , this day on. Thanks again for taking the time to share this past year of yours, it has really been insightful to many of us, Tracy

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  23. You are so right rachel, there is a time 7 a place for things. Tomorrow is another day,......to quote Scarlette herself!
    Happy New Year to you & yours! I will wish good things for you too!!
    Leslie
    La maison fou blog

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  24. In looking back, it is the most difficult years that make us stronger. I have found that it helps toBe joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Romans 12:12
    I hope that 2010 will be a happy and healthy year for you and yours.
    Thank you, Rachel for highlighting beauty, romance, peace and gentleness in a world that so often is anything but. I consider all of your books among my very favorites. My favorite Christmastime purchase this year was my pink Shabby Chic stocking with the crown rhinestones! I.love.it!
    Happy 2010. peace and blessings.
    susan

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  25. I love to read your blog, it's always so inspiring !

    We all have to believe in the future whatever may come. Until then let's all be the princess in our lives, I liked that so much so that's going to be my first inspiration this year !

    All the best to you !

    Best wishes from Anneli in Sweden !

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  26. I received one of the last shipments from Shabby on Fillmore. Mallory sent me three of your books as a late Mother's Day present.

    At the end of Treasure Hunting, there is a poem titled The Divine Ladder. The last lines are "In useless effort, then waste no time; Rebuild your ladder, and Climb and Climb."

    When I read those lines in May, I had no doubt you were on the way back up your ladder. Never a doubt you would continue climbing it to your dreams.

    Wishing you only the best for 2010 and beyond.

    Sincerely,
    Allison Arnett

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  27. beautiful...happy 2010. jules

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  28. No noise. Perfect. That and pink ruffles. It is the first day of 2010. We have made it. Your new year will contain all you want and some of what you don't, but that no noise thing? I think it makes you strong - you are still here. Thank you.

    :) Debi

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  29. All the best for you in the new year!

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  30. Thank you for your heartfelt thoughts and lovely photos. Wishing you a wonderful year in 2010. Your comments are little gems I take away with me. As I've observed previously, you have the gift...

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  31. sweet, lovely, true...
    may your 2010 be blessed with continuing beauty, love, and magic.

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  32. Such a beautiful and honest post.

    I wish you endless happiness in 2010!

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  33. I know I'm reading this late but the timing seems to have been preordained by another need. And I needed to read this post. I thought I had my humility, strength, and clarity right here beside me. I guess I need to have more. I have put my princess in the back seat for a while now and she just ain't gonna have it no more! I have let too many people run me over for the sake of smooth sailing. Need to find a place of zen in the middle. Thank you for the moment of inspiration this morning- it came exactly at the right time.

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  34. Beautiful post.

    I hope 2010 holds many Blessings for you.

    All the best,
    Eileen

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  35. ohhh Rachel I am so happy to find your Blog.Your Blog and your Shops are fantastic you are a inspiration.Lovly wishes Nina from Germany

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  36. Hoping 2010 brings you all your dreams & hopes, pure joy & a peaceful heart.....

    Happy New Year Rachel...

    Lyn xxx

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  37. Thank you for your beautiful post! I actually just used an idea from one of your books tonight in preparing for my daughter's first birthday party (from sumptuous settings - I made "bead cupcakes" with sparkly candles!) I love how you find beauty in elegant, simple, vintage things. Thank you for sharing your point of view. Have a wonderful 2010 and I will be following your blog for inspiration!

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  38. Sometimes in business we are criticized for using both our "hearts and heads". I've been thinking that way for awhile now, and it has carried me through some of the rougher spots in life! We had a New Years Day Sale, and not only were we slammed, but it was so interesting to me to listen to my customers reflections of this past year. It reminded me that we are all on this journey together and that this new year, this new decade, this new beginning just may be shining a little bit brighter for us all!

    Take care Rachel, Sue

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  39. Dear Rachel,
    As I read this post it reflects on the many things we all face together. and it is the beauty, the fantasy, the dream that in the end will show us the way to our true longings...
    Wishing you and your family love, peace and tranquilty for 2010 dear friend.
    Jo-Anne Coletti
    www.vintagerosecollection.com

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  40. Being present in the present, showing up in life, finding gratitude for the moments is an excellent mantra. Thanks for the lovely, inspired words and pictures.

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  41. truly all life is a long hard lesson....with rewards of course...

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  42. this was nice...smiles.

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  43. Hi Rachel, Wishing you a New Year filled with so much love, good health, tons of happiness and blessings surrounding you & your loved ones..I just returned from visiting family for the Holidays & stopped by your new SoHo store.. it is beautiful..still the most magical & serene place to shop & visit. Keep the faith the best is yet to come... xoxoo laura ( rosey girl)

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  44. I can't believe I'm only finding your blog now..so very excited! I've followed you since those very early days of your show on cable...cannot wait to read through the rest of your posts.

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  45. Sending best wishes for a really wonderful New Year Rachel - hope it is the best ever for you and your family.

    I had so many things to tell blog friends about my visit to the Mercer St. shop recently, so tomorrow I'm posting on all the beautiful things you offer there. Do stop by if you have time - and be sure to let me know if I need to correct anything in the post!

    Good luck with the London shop - I'm telling family and friends in the UK about it so they will visit when in the city.

    Happy New Year.
    Mary - ACROSS THE POND

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  46. I somehow found your blog this morning before I started my day and was so glad I did, your words, your heart, really touched mine. I so needed to read this. Thank you.
    j

    p.s. I have admired your gift of all things beautiful for many years and was so sad that I missed you when you came to Santa Barbara (where i live) another reminder of a life too busy and missing the wonderful things!

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  47. Rachel,
    I found you through a friend, Mary @Across the Pond and just adore your shabby chic style.
    Got yourself a new Brit follower!
    Happy New Year from Normandy.
    Maggie

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  48. Hello Rachel,my name is Pamela and I live in Los Angeles. I have an Italian magazine that is interested in conducting an interview with you via phone. I was not sure how to contact you so I hope this message will get to you. Please let me know if we can set this up. You can contact me at garofoli1@sbcglobal.net. Thank you for you attention.

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  49. i love this post. happy new year.

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  50. I always have admired how you take the "lovely" and make them a part of your everyday life instead of saving the "lovely" for special treats.

    You continue to remind us that everyday is a treat.

    Here is to a treat-filled 2010!

    Big Hug,
    Elizabeth

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  51. Hi Rachel,
    You are an amazing source of inspiration for myself .. Soo honest, sweet, and soo humble !! It's soo because of you, that I LoVe what I LoVe .. Was soo fun meeting up with you at Country Roads .. You are soo beautiful, and to share your heart so openly .. Amazing .. Thanks for always sharing and caring .. Feep doing what you do, I need a new book again from you, I've read the last one over and over .. No better way to relax .. Have a happy, healthy, full of LoVe year for you Rachel ~
    Thanks for being so real ~
    hugs to you ~tea~xo

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  52. Dear Rachel,

    I have been a fan of yours since I got to watch you on cable television in Manila. Not only am I a great fan and admirer,but when people ask me "who do you look up to?" - other than my mom and my sisters - there's you.

    Even in your struggles and pain, you have so much strength, faith, dignity, and hope.

    Please know how much we love you. Your thoughts, insights and just the beautiful person that you are -never fail to truly, truly inspire us.

    Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

    Maitel
    Manila, Philippines

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  53. Hi Rachel, happy new year. May God ilunine our decisions to realize our projects. Let peace, love, marriage and work in our homes. I am delighted with my blog, I love your style ...
    Please let us know your world. a big hug. Laura

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  54. Just found your lovely blog...have been a fan for years!! Hope 2010 brings you much luck and happiness!! All the best,Chrissy

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  55. Gorgeous photos and truly inspiring words, thank you for the lovely post. Wishing you a wonderful year ahead in twenty10.

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  56. Hope 2010 brings peace and happiness to your life.
    Beautiful post
    Alison

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  57. Barbara ChristensenSunday, January 10, 2010

    You would have never known this, but from the moment your store appeard at the Domain in Austin, TX, it became my bi-monthly escape to a place of peace and beauty. I am a 10 year cancer survivor. I have learned what is important. At that time, Shabby Chic became my balancing place. Just time for me! When the store closed, I can tell you from my heart, that it was much saddened. I have 3 of your vidios and pop one in from time to time, as time warrants. I am a painter and teacher. We love to paint roses.
    Thank you, thank you! Is there still a sight we are able to purchase from? You have come to a good place, but you are missed in Austin.
    Blessings, Barbara

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  58. Rachel, May 2010 be a wonderful year filled with happiness and love for you and your family!

    Wish I could see Your tvshow Shabby Chic, is it avalible on dvd? Were can I find it?

    Kindly, Helena S (sweden)

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  59. Best wishes for a Happier New Year Rachel!

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  60. A simple little sign above my door for 28 years reads,Bless Our Home. Nothing fancy. Not even antique, and I hardly notice it anymore. Guess I should start looking up before I leave and close the door behind me. Thanks for reminding me to see The Year Ahead!

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  61. i do love doorways of possibility...& your pink velvet chair!!! may your year be filled with loveliness

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  62. Hello Rachel, I have always loved your design asthetic. Your appreciation of the beauty of things that most people wouldn't look at twice is always inspiring. I need your advice on something. My sister is getting married in May and I am the matron of honor. I have found a beautiful buttercup yellow tulle dress with rayon slip (all one piece). It is in great condition, but I would like to freshen it by cleaning it. Any advice on how to clean it? I've seen lots of these types of dresses in your books and wondered if you clean them and if so, how you do it. Any advice would help. Thanks and keep up the good work. Good luck with your Notting Hill storm. Hope to visit some day. Ursula, Washington, DC

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  63. Rachel:
    I am Jo Packham, Editor-in-Chief of WHERE WOMEN CREATE - Inspiring Work Spaces of Extraordinary Women - www.wherewomencreate.com.
    I would like to talk to you about being featured in our magazine.
    Could you email me: jo@wherewomencreate.com?
    Thank you
    Jo

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  64. This was so lovely Rachel. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself and your process. I come to your blog to dream and explore, and I always feel uplifted and happy when I leave. Wishing you good things in 2010! I'll be reading to see what you are up to next! : )

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  65. Happy New Year to you! Thank you for the share. I have been a lover of your style for quite some time and I love how it has evolved.
    Thank you for the lovely share.
    xx

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  66. Rachel,
    What you were saying about freedom and also about life in general was very profound and the photographs you chose to illustrate this made an impact on me. Thank you for sharing, Renee

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  67. yup, pink always makes me smileee!

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  68. I would love to offer you a suggestion I know will be a success. Open a store in Westport or Fairfield Connecticut. You will find success you can't imagine because this particular area is wealthy and recession proof. I don't usually comment anywhere but I could not resist because I just know your product and that very large community is a perfect fit. Without being too bold (and this IS a coincidence) my brother in law, David Gorbach is a business realitor whose company (Colonial Reality in Fairfield, Conn, & I don't even have the phone #) will work with you and find you the perfect space in this suburb of NYC. I am not trying to get him more business, just passing on my intuitive feeling that you will find much success if you open a store there. Good luck,

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  69. Hi Rachel,I met Shabby Chic a few years ago and it's such a pleasure to follow your Blog! It always give nice inspirations! I'm just starting refinishing old furniture and I just love what I do. I was just waiting the kids to grow a little older to start. All the best for you always!
    Warm greetings,
    Li by Creamy White

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  70. I love your new look...your new book...Softness, simplicity, heavenly repose. I did a lil post of your pretties on my blog for white Wednesdays.

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  71. fantastic!
    what an inspiration here!
    tx

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