Tuesday, July 21, 2009

The Quiet Car

Last week I took the train from Penn Station in NY to Springfield MA for
Brimfield Antique Show. Before I got on the train I made sure my phone
and blackberry were fully charged so I could use my time productively on the
train.I so much prefer to travel on the ground more than flying. In fact I'm
actually a fearful flyer and am usually frozen with fear at airports and
on planes. That's probably why there was once a comment written by someone
who said I seemed "entitled and snobby" at the airport, I was probably
asking the poor check in assistant 100 times if she thought we would be safe.

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I settled into my train seat, so happy that I was to be on a journey that
didn't include the "unfriendly skies", blackberry and phone at hand.

Quiet Car copy

Before the train left the station a voice from nowhere announced "If you
can hear my voice you have chosen the QUIET CAR. That means no cell phones,
no loud conversation." How happy was I that a power more sensible than myself
took control. Instead of an irritating knot in stomach journey, I enjoyed 3
hours of a peaceful journey, chugging along viewing the scenery of Connecticut.
I arrived in Brimfield at 3pm well rested. July is the quietest of the three Brimfield shows.

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My treasure hunting was planned with a couple of friends, and also
with an associate who is planning the launch of my new book
signing at Selfridges in London.

Selfridges final final 2

Joining me as well was a lovely lady who owns the fabulous
store Geminola in the West Village.

Geminola final 5

We became fast friends, with the common thread of loving the search for
treasures. It didn't take long for the conversations to transpire while
we lived together for a few days in the "flea market bubble".
From 6am we searched for treasures followed by dinners where we
searched our souls with conversations that easily flow when you find
yourself away from home, with minds that think alike.
There was giggly laughter as we reached exhaustion.

Flea Sketch copy

Boy Pic 3 copy

Our group all had an appreciation for the imperfect and the
imagination to recycle a new life for things that have soul but got
discarded along the way. I wasn't looking for anything specific.
Just some magic.

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I managed to avoid the porto potties as I found a secret loo.

Church Picture 5

My eyes edited carefully, and as always metaphors stopped me in my tracks.
I came across 3 chairs for $50. Not bad, until the seller pointed out,
"One of the chairs has some issues". The chairs issues were hidden under a
blanket. In my mind I calculated the price fore 3 chairs was fair, but if
the chair "with issues" was of no use, the two remaining was. Not such a
good deal.I respectfully lifted the blanket to reveal what were the issues,
only to find a wooden spoke was coming undone and just needed some glue.
I associated immediately with the concept of "coming undone", and just
needing some tender loving care. I bought all three chairs.

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chair glue final copy

One afternoon I felt a little sleepy. I observed the sensibility of dog.

dog nap copy

and I thought "why not?". I found a tree for shade and did the same thing.

Shade Tree copy

It reminded me of my favorite book I used to read my children.

The giving tree final copy

My journey of the "quiet car" ended with the shade of a tree.
I think we are back to "better than normal".

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77 comments:

  1. What a great post. Sounds like the perfect treasure hunting trip. Alison

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  2. Lovely post. Quiet is as chic as shabby!

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  3. Oh you do live a charmed life -- to those of us "looking in", anyway... :)

    Always look forward to you writing when you can.

    Thanks so much!

    Ruth

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  4. Loved your post!! You look at ease and calm, right where you should be!!

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  5. Love the picture of you under the tree and the connection with the book. How wonderful that you stumbled acroos it.

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  6. Rachel, you look beautiful under the shadey tree; happy and smiling..Thats a good thing :)
    Ahh, the power of now..What a read! I finally finished it after many attempts of putting it down. The journey is long but blisffuly furfilling.

    Actully awaiting your wonderful new book!!!
    Flowers and love to you,
    Jo-Anne

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  7. Pretty post. Pretty to read, pretty to look at.
    You sound like you are in a place of Grace.

    Always so happy to read you!
    All the best,
    Eileen

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  8. Sounds like a wonderful treasure hunt. I know I am one of thousands who have pre-ordered your next book from Barnes and Noble. It is always fun going flea marketing with you.
    Penny

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  9. what a lovely hunt and you made it an enjoyable read! thank you!

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  10. What a grand trip you took. I love that train ride from NYC up to Massachusetts. A treat that Brimfield was at the end of the quiet car. Nothing like a bit of flea market shopping to re-charge!
    ~Marilee

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  11. What a lovely post. It sounds like you a great treasure hunting trip. I am so looking forward to your new book.

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  12. OOh,that looks like such fun!!! We dont have good outdoor markets or fairs here in Australia like you do in the States!!I was lucky enough 2 years ago to go to a Rosebowl market in LA,my god i couldnt believe such treasure!! Couldnt get half of it home unfortunately!Looks like you founds some great stuff!!! Looking forward to the new book!

    Keep well!

    Lesley : )

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  13. Such a lovely time, and a lovely story told. Much needed here at the almost end of one of those weeks. The Quiet Car. An inspired concept - whoever thought it up is amassing some extra karma points.

    :) Debi

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  14. Hi Rachel,

    Glad to read that you are feeling more yourself lately, good for you. What a lovely cover for you new book, looking forward to reading it! Take care, all the best,
    Maureen Paal

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  15. I can not wait until your book hits the shelves!!
    Like you, I hate to fly. I get nervous the minute I book the ticket. Seriously, I should start thinking about trying some anxiety meds or something. ;) Luckily, I don't fly a lot! I'm going to use one of your quotes from this post in a future blog post of mine if that is okay? (I will reference you of course!) I feel it is so fitting: "I wasn't looking for anything specific. Just some magic."

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  16. Rachel...thank you for sharing your journey! So glad to see you out doing what you LOVE..living the LIFE you LOVE! I adore this post....it made me smile. Especially the end with you under the tree and the Giving Tree. HAPPY SUMMER!!

    Blessings....
    Amy Rose

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  17. I am so glad that you have a blog! I am enjoying it very much!
    Thank you for all of the lovely photos in your posts, and for sharing real parts of yourself. It takes a special courage to do that, I think.
    Shabby Chic has really had an amazing impact on my life and I don't think I could handle it if you/it were to disappear. I can see from this blog that you/it remain strong, beautiful, and authentic, just like I would have thought. Thank you, Rachel, for being willing to 'stay' when it might have been tempting to disappear. You make a difference.

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  18. I feel for you about flying because I am exactly the same! The last time I came to America, we went to Boston and NYC. Rather than fly we decided to take the train and it was lovely, so relaxing and the scenery was amazing; very Dawson's Creek!
    One thing that did amuse me was Boston to Washington DC was a 'regional service' whereas the UK equivalent would be national, probablt from John O Groats to Lands End!! x

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  19. Rachel so excited to hear about you coming to London for your book launch!

    Victoria xx

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  20. "better than normal" is a treasure. So happy to hear it. We all strive for that place in our soul. Some find it. Some don't. I can't wait to see what this brings.

    Doesn't "The Quiet Car" sound like a wonderful name for a poem or child's story?

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  21. Thanks Rachel for pointing out the "little things" in life that mean so much. I enjoyed your post and your words! Take care.

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  22. Dear Rachel,

    I am so glad to see you out there and feeling good !

    I am so looking forward to your book !

    Hang in there, honey as my baseball nut son says things get better when you put on your rally cap !

    (Baseball cap worn inside out, backwards and with the bill flipped upward.)

    Keep blogging it is fun to read what you are up to day to day.

    :) Betsy

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  23. Ahhhhhh! You sound content and at peace. Regarding "The Power of Now", it may be easier to listen to the book vs reading. It made a huge difference to me regarding the concept. (Skip the first chapter and read it last!)

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  24. This is a beautiful post Rachel. As a tree planted by the water thrives, you too are thriving. Sharing your transformation enriches our lives and deepens our faith in what might be, what could be, should we choose to reach out and embrace our own uncertain future, with hope in our hearts,instead of fear and dread. Out of the ashes you are a rising.

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  25. Lovely post. I totally understand your feeling re: flying. I haven't flown since 1985 and have absolutely no desire to. The Quiet Car sounds awesome. There's one on the Coast Starlight which goes from WA to CA. It's my dream to take that rail journey some day. Glad all your antiquing ventures are going well. I enjoyed seeing the pictures and reading of this experience.

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  26. How much joy does the blogging world give so many of us !!! This gorgeous post from Rachel led me to SABRINAS COMMENT's. Go to her blog and take a look at the wedding dance for a huge smile.

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  27. Thank you for sharing these moments with us, and sorry to the person who left nasty comments (airport) about such a wonderful woman, shame on 'em!

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  28. You look great sitting under that "Giving Tree" very happy I think it must have been the train ride.. I am with you a wreck up in the air I call them ...religious flights... anyway I posted about your new book to come on my blog... can't wait. xoxooLaura

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  29. I am hoping with sincerity that these trips to the fleas could have something to do with opening stores again. Just this morning, I glanced at some of the Shabby Chic ribbon I have laying beautifully in one of the three-tiered metal baskets (just some of the much Shabby Chic beauty in my home) and thought - She has to open up here in Austin before Christmas. It's where I got all my gifts last year! We are waiting and hoping so have fun, buy much, and share! Nobody does it better!

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  30. Rachel,

    I am happy to hear you are finding some peace and relaxation. I have a request and would appreciate it if you could contact me at my email. Thank you so much!
    junquecouture@ymail.com

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  31. hallo rachel einfach super schöööööööööööön dein blog. bin in einer woche für zwei wochen in den usa. habe gehört dass du ein geschäft in new york hast würde dich gerne besuchen wenn du offen hast in der boutique. ganz liebe grüsse daniela

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  32. brauche noch die adresse deines shops. grins habe es vor lauter begeisterung vergessen

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  33. "...by desiring what is perfectly good, even when we don't quite know what it is and cannot do what we would, we are part of the divine power against evil - widening the skirts of light and making the struggle with darkness narrower." Mary Ann Evans (George Eliot) Middlemarch

    Just thought you might enjoy this quote. I remember making a pilgrimage to the Shabby Chic store in Soho about nine years ago. I could not afford much, so I bought a teacup and a fabric rose. I have never taken the tag off of the rose. I have made all my own slip covers from white denim and when Target began carrying your line, I thought I had died and gone to heaven. I bought throw pillows for my couch and felt as if I had achieved 'the look'. Thanks for the inspiration.

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  34. Sounds like you had a lovely time. Those chairs are sooo pretty! I, too, love finding things in need of love and attention, take them in and appreciate what they can offer. Thanks for sharing your trip.

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  35. So glad to see your smiling face.

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  36. How exciting, a train ride into Mass. to go to the great "Brim" Antique show! Normally, husband Jim and I attend all three shows but were real busy at the time so we couldn't make it. One dealer we really love stopping by is Au Ciel Antique Studio owned by Erica and Larry. I never leave the show without a nice little or big something from them. I do plan on going to Madison Boukville on the 15th of August and that is one show we never miss. Anyway, the picture of you under the shade tree spoke a thousand words. Nice to see that you are in a peaceful place in your heart. Hopefully I will see you in October to have the honor of you signing my book.
    ~ Stephanie Bradley

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  37. I love the train. It's safe and romantic.

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  38. I FORGOT ALL ABOUT BRIMFIELD, HOW COULD I :( ARE YOU GOING TO THE CORRIDOR 127 IN AUG. FROM OHIO TO ALABAMA, I'M FILMING IT, SO MAYBE I'LL SEE YOU THERE :) GIO

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  39. Loving the photo of you under the tree. Right where you are meant to be in your life, happy & content.
    glad to see that, sweetie.
    Lidy

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  40. "better" is definitely a very good thing.
    and doggies are such wisdom teachers!

    hugs from Italy
    Antonella

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  41. I'm savoring this post--there is so much inspiration here! I wanted to say thank you for speaking about your fear of flying. I, too, am a fearful flyer and it really is a problem at times. So, thank you for sharing that about yourself. I will be checking train schedules today -- sounds pretty romantic with the added benefit of having all my wheels touching the ground. : )

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  42. The lampshade in the Brimfield collection is really interesting. I am an artist working in Seattle and I love "pretty" work in lampshades. You might look at my website to see my lampshades.
    Kathi

    http://www.kathleenmullaney.com

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  43. Just found your blog for the first time and love it! some amazing photos of your antique fair finds!
    Lovely blog! :)
    Much love from Ireland xx
    magpie-girl.blogspot.com

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  44. What a charming post :)

    I wonder, I have done a post about some old Marks and Spencer curtains I bought years ago. I knew a designer was involved but couldn't remeber who. Having done a little research on the www I am thinking you may have been the designer involved.

    Were you, I hope so, they are beautiful and are going to take pride of place in my kitchen diner :)

    The post were I mention them.

    http://marypoppins-homesweethome.blogspot.com/2009/07/there-is-no-place-like.html

    A beautiful blog you have :)

    X

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  45. Sounds like your better than normal....are you coming to Selfridges to do a book signing??
    Those knives are beautiful!! xx

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  46. Wow, it's only 8:32 here at my home, and you've got me thinking "nap" lol. A train ride sounds kinda pleasant, too! I enjoy your posts! Karen

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  47. You looked so happy and relaxed..good on you..love the post..look forward to reading about your adventures..

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  48. Ah, another lovely post from you about train travel and Massachusetts, etc. I love to read your words and see what pictures catch your eye. These occasional comments of yours (with photos and sketches) are themselves very special little treats. Thank you for sharing, as always, can't wait for your new book and, most of all, so glad that normal is here and good (another "ahhhh," the relief of it, yes, when life is more on an even keel.....). Best wishes...and, incidentally, I too abhor travel by air, although when I was a younger woman, it was nothing I gave much thought about but, of course, that's when life seems so infinite and we are less afraid perhaps because we're still so new to the big world out there!

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  49. So delighted to read your post. I don't make time to read books anymore, it was like reading a short story. You write really well. Grazie Rita

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  50. I love your outlook on life...and the way you have decided to live "better than normal". Wishing you all the best.

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  51. Hi Rachel -

    I see you around from time to time and have never said anything - but since I've read your blogs I feel like when I 'run into you' again, I can say hi, thank you for your inspiration and tell you how much I like you.

    If I don't see you before - I'll come down to Diesal -

    Happy Days -

    Marsha

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  52. Congratulations on your new book. I look forward to reading it, cover to cover. I love the plate and knife you showed there. So elegant. Looked like the perfect hunting trip.
    Sonia

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  53. I love your chairs and your Marie Antoinette stuff. As usually, no way to forget your style. Many time I see things and think it would be so great in a store of yours.
    I love the dog too. Simple happiness, I would spend days to watch animals of all kinds. Maybe they understood the true life ?
    Yael

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  54. A new book..I shall welcome it with open arms, hungry heart, and eager eyes. You have been such an inspiration for so many--my shop was created because of a love for early morning hunts and tattered treasures. Enjoy this time. Relax. Breathe.

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  55. I love to read your blog, I so admire your style, in life and in decorating. Some down time would go a long way in making most of our lives better. Hugs ~cindy s~

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  56. I've haven't been lucky enough to attend Brimfield yet - thank you, Rachel, for taking us with! Looking forward to your new book!

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  57. I agree with Allison, another wonderful post! I love the flow, like a summer breeze.
    Shel Silverstein was a favorite author of my daughter and son. I just found out that he KNEW Buddy Holly!

    Your Chair story reminded me of a song from when I was a child... something like, "she's come undone" ?

    My daughter and I were taking our first trip to New York to visit my brother! We were so excited that as the plane started to ascend we suddenly looked right at one another as we realized~ we had to take off and land! God is there for us. See we landed in New York On Sept. 8th, 2001. God thwarted my brothers exciting early morning plans for us that Tuesday.
    As troubled times are all over, I am better learning to trust God.

    I am going to inform my mom about your wonderful "Quiet Car". Thank YOU!

    I do agree with you, that is the most beautiful knife I have ever seen! It is fit for a princess!

    With Kindness,
    Mary

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  58. wow -- you were at brimfield! so was i. it was my first time. lots of amazing things. i took some pics if you'd like to see:
    http://tinkeredtreasures.blogspot.com/2009/07/
    brimming-with-brimfield-pics.html

    so happy to see you happy to be, beneath a nice tree.

    warmest,
    elyse

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  59. Rachel, I have been a fan of yours and Shabby Chic since I first found you and your show on the Style network, several years ago. At the time I didn't live anywhere near one of your stores, but always hoped I could, as I share your love of this beautiful lifestyle. I finally had the blessing of moving to San Jose, California a couple of years ago and had planned a trip to the LA area this year and my first visit to the flagship Shabby Chic store. When I went online to do some research on Shabby Chic and where it was located, it led me to your blog and what had happened in the past year. I was totally stunned. Sad and wondering why and how this had happened, I read through all your past blogs. I can't tell you how sorry I am, I actually had tears running down my face. But after the shock and reading your own hopes and thoughts on the future, I realized that Shabby Chic is still alive and well. Although a chapter has closed, a new one is being written. I commend you on your wonderful attitude, honesty, courage and talent, wish you ALL the best and look forward to the new future of Shabby Chic and all that is to come. You are an inspiration to all of us, especially those of us who have experienced our own losses this past year. Thank you and I look forward to all that is in store in the future of Shabby Chic (including your new book!).

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  60. HI, Rachel! I was so happy to come across your blog. I recently read all of your books (came across them a little later than most!) and I practically inhaled them from cover to cover. I cannot wait for your new book to come out. I love your taste and style, and I love the way you have only pretty pretty things around you. I am trying to do the same in my house now; only surround ourselves with things I absolutely love. I am in the midst of changing all the paint to white and creams. Pulled off the laminate ugly cabinet doors in my kitchen that I have been staring at for 8 years and now I just have open white shelving. My husband was horrified at first but he is getting used to it! I have realized that there is no reason to compromise even on a tight budget. Thank you for sharing your ideas and your style; I am even copying your palette, hope you dont mind, but its the colors I love too. Thank you for sharing it all! Keep doing what you are doing and bringing PRETTY into our lives!! I was planning to do Brimfields for the first time in July but with 3 kids at home it didnt work out, but now its back on my calendar for September. Its back to school time but I hope I can pull it off. Thank you again!! Rachel (I am Rachel too:-)

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  61. I too was at Brimfield and saw you many times. At the textile show and also several times on the different fields. I resisted the urge to introduce myself and to tell you how happy I was to see you out and about again. There is nothing like treasure hunting to recharge your batteries. I wish you all the best with your new book and any other future projects. Who knows, at the next show I may just walk up to you and say HI!

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  62. I've been a loyal fan and customer for years... yet I'd never thought to visit your website or blog until tonight, something compelled me to and alas, now I know why. I'm SO sorry to hear about the closing of stores and bankruptcy filing for Shabby Chic!!! The style of Shabby Chic was a kindred Spirit to all that I'd found lovely and cherished for years... those time worn, salvaged and faded objects that have such character and should be saved and given new life. I'm thankful for the appreciation Shabby Chic style has for such things, opening up this beautiful way of decorating to the world! It lends itself to comfort and a relaxed ease for raising our Families, enjoying our pets and entertaining our Friends and Grandchildren. Thank you so much for twenty years of creativity and passion for what you (and the rest of us) loves! My Prayers are with you during this transitional period of your life, you really have made a difference and a mark... God Bless

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  63. Great hunting!!!
    Always a lovely way to spend the time!
    Leslie

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  64. I'm so excited about your new book!! I just can't wait :D

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  65. Such a lovely post.
    You really do take quite beautiful photos !

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  67. Aren't trains the best!!!! I too am deathly afraid of flying. "The Giving Tree" is a wonderful book. Yes, we can learn alot from dogs and napping. So glad to see you smiling again! You are an inspiration! See you in October at book signing. Inge

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  68. It has been a while since I posted a comment...
    I was only so busy
    I don't forget you
    I miss you !
    When I'm looking at a pillow or a sheet or a duvet or anything else FROM YOU, I feel really happy in my home !
    Lovely post as always, I can't wait for your new book !
    All the best from France
    marie christine

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  69. Many, many thanks Rachel for sharing your beautiful world and your beautiful self with us. Keep doing those simple things that matter most.

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  70. Lovely post! And may I say, I too started read The Giving Tree to my 26 year old when he was a child and carried it through to all four of my children! (my youngest 10 years old) Wonderful message in that one ~ compassion and love!

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  71. Hi Rachel...Looking forward to your new book. Congrats. I was looking at the dates for the book signing for Costa Mesa. It say Friday, Oct 24th. That is a Saturday. Is it Sat or Friday so I can put it on my calendar.

    thanks..

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  72. Rachel, I don't know the details of why your stores have closed but want you to know that I treasure every purchase I have made from Shabby Chic. Furniture, books, accessories have all been lovely additions to my life and home. I have so enjoyed your particular view of beauty. I also cherish the memory of meeting you by chance one day at your Newport Beach store. May god bless you.

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  73. Rachel I can´t see your website shabbychic.com why is this? Are you planning to close the website or it´s only temporary?n Thanks in advance, I really enjoy watching your website and see what is new.

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  74. Your posts are always so beautifully written and thoughtful. I enjoy reading them so very much. I am anxiously awaiting your new book to come out so I can curl up and read it cover to cover. Eventually I will add it to my book shelf with the other books you have written. They are all timeless and I return to them frequently.
    xo
    jeanne

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  75. Pretty to read, pretty to look at.
    You sound like you are in a place of Grace.
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