packing, throwing away, donating and auctioning the contents
of my dad and mums house. Mum and dad lived in this four story
skinny house for thirty years.
Now that my mum is no longer here, my dad decided he wanted to
move into something quite a lot smaller. However, this has been
quite a challenge to consolidate a biggish house of contents
into a little apartment due to a combination of my mums many
hobbies, my dads near obsession with books, and them both not
wanting to part with anything for many years.
And at the same time of this project my daughters college year
has ended so it has been time to pack her up and decide what will
come back to Los Angeles for the summer and what can stay packed
and stored in London.
So- I have become very familiar with trash bags, tape and labels,
boxes, storage companies, auction houses, and charities.
I have never been much of a hoarder. I buy things very selectively
and either use until worn out or, if not used enough, I am good at
cutting my losses and giving away before the dust builds.
And as I have mentioned I have confined my stuff to a "forever
to keep chest of drawers".
These past couple of weeks I have had the job to judge what has
value to keep, and what must be let go. This entire process has
given me many opportunities to wonder about the emotional and
financial value of "stuff."
The cliche of "one mans junk is another mans treasure" has been
words I have understood in the flea market world.
But for the most part the packing of my parents home(other than a
few rare books, antique dolls) most of the treasures that I have
been handling have been very personal.
Once again a reminder to me that a house becomes a home when
life happens and memories are made.
My parents house is full of evidence of a life of interests
wonderfully researched with beautiful sketches, careful
handwritten notes.Paint brushes and paints, piano music with
notes of study, white feathers gathered (representing angels).
A sewing box with needles already threaded.
A beautiful tapestry, nearly finished.
Recipe books with pages stuck together from dripping sauces.
Dog eared books, read and reread.
Boxes and boxes and box of photographs. So much fun to once
again look through.
War medals from my mums father, carefully packed away.
Every letter and card myself, my sister, or my kids had every
written to our parents, wrapped up in paper bags. Years and years
and years of them. For sure never viewed for the longest time.
Perhaps they are just being stored for exactly the purpose they
served this week, one of bringing to color the memory of family,
life, sharing of experiences. Not hallmark moments but good bench
marks that even from afar, we kept in touch. Forever. Until that
forever ended. But then dovetailed into a new forever.
I must make sure I become a bit more of a hoarder
so I continue the forever.
So even though I thought my job of clearing would be dreadful and
quick, I have once again delayed my flight home, to relive the memories.
Funny in the end, the things that will gain some financial rewards
through auction might become the other mans treasures, but I have
boxes and boxes of what might seem to be junk, but to me a pot of gold.
Next stop, to pack up my sons things in new york and find him a
new apartment. Here I go again with my tape and boxes..
Wish the tape weren't brown and the marker black and the boxes so ugly.
Rachel Ashwell Moving and Storage......
To all my loyal customers:
As you all know Rachel Ashwell Shabby Chic had closed its doors on
all retail, for now. All of our manufacturing is shut down.
There are some websites who continue to represent they are carrying
my product. In some cases this is authentic product that was purchased
through my company before we closed our factories.
However there are websites who are claiming they can have our exact furniture copied. Please be aware this is unauthorized and any products that are being manufactured now using the trademark of Rachel Ashwell Shabby Chic are not authentic, therefore fake.
Please be careful of misleading marketing. For those of you who have the real
thing, please enjoy. For those of you who don't, I ask you don't support people trying to deceive, and hurt many in the process.
Thank you. Rachel.
Such a bittersweet post, Rachel. I loved it.
ReplyDeleteIt's a daunting task to pack up a lifetime (I did it for my parents after they both passed away), it really brings a flood of memories, a flood of emotions, and it tugs hard at your heartstrings.
You have a lot on your life plate right now.
I'll keep you in my prayers.
Wow, I had no idea. These are some wonderful photographs. Please treasure these items in them, as I am sure you will.
ReplyDeleteI have many of your books and hope to hear more of you in the future.
All my best.
-Kelley Lewis Venturo
www.myislandwedding.com
I just LOVED your trip down memory lane...makes you realize how far you have actually traveled. I think that we so often we are always forging foward and looking ahead...... that until we are forced...we don't look at where we have been. Things like this are great reminders of our childhood...which sometimes seems a lifetime ago.Thanks for sharing with us! :)
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful for you to find such meaningful treasures. The young people in our world remind us that life is not static but fluid, forever moving. Literally:) I have various pieces of disassembled apartments and dorm rooms in my garage as we speak. Have a great summer and enjoy your dear family. The rest is just stuff.
ReplyDeleteHi Rachel, I am the 1st one again to leave my comment. I don't spend my time watching your website but I come back from time to time to be sure Shabby Chic does still exist. Your story has been such an inspiration for me and in spite of the hitches, it gives me some courage and faith in my own project. Your photos are like a charming journey in my own memories as Paris is very close to London, and I see more and more common points between the both cities and styles. Things could be so charming when we were children, the pastels could have been mine. I was like your sister, drawing and painting all the time... I just wanted to say that I don't understand how people can be satisfied in copying models which are not theirs. Do they lack so much of imagination that they can't create something by themselves ? Do they really think we are going to buy it (in the both senses)? And are customers going to purchase these fake pieces, guessing or even knowing they are not original ? What exactly crosses the mind of people doing that ? I don't understand. I always have to put my print on everything I make, I am myself unable to copy anything, and even when I tried, the result was always far far away from the original because I think we can't avoid to put some of ourselves in everything we touch. So how do they manage to do that ? Are they blank-minded ? Have they an empty brain ? Anyway, thanks for this info, I am sure all the true Shabby Chic fans will know how to remain loyal to your brand and your design. Long live Shabby Chic !
ReplyDeleteDear Rachel,
ReplyDeleteThank you for your post! Having lost both my in laws I am very familiar with the process of "moving and storage". Although they did not own anything "valuable", their pictues, and old cookie jar are priceless to us!
I have come across a website with a picture of your store labeled as their own. This was from a store I have purchased "antique" items from before, and I must say I am very disappointed with them. It truly shows lack of character and honesty on their part.
Having said that, NOBODY can duplicate you. YOU are the original. I have never seen any prints as beautiful as the ones you created. It is a shame that some businesses cannot be successful in their own right.
You are such an inspriration! I absolutly LOVE shabby chic, and have for years. (I remember years ago seen your fabric in Victoria Magazine when it was only sold wholesale). I look forward to your return in the retail business, and for your new book to be out. Please keep us posted as to when and if you will be having a book signing.
Take care, and God Bless!
"your loyal customer"
mmoore
Dear Rachel,
ReplyDeleteI am new to your blog, having just found it in the last couple days. I stayed up until the wee hours, reading all of it, and I have been truly inspired by your integrity, your honesty, and your faith. Thank you.
I was sorry to read about your Mum. Please accept my belated condolences to you and your Family. I lost my Mom eight years ago, after having lost my Dad; four years ago I lost my Husband. I too, am familiar with the piles of stuff: reduce, reuse, recycle or, as we said at the time, stay, go, gift. It's a daunting task, but ultimately healing. The memories...
I hope you continue to write. I have your books and they have informed my own vision of "home life"; I look forward to the new one. I also hope Shabby Chic returns someday. I always loved it...
My thoughts and good wishes are with you.
Laura.
Oh how very wonderful! All of these things would be treasures to me but they actually belonged to your parents so they are so much more to you! Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteHugs, Lisa
Dear Rachel,
ReplyDeleteOh my. The sweetness & charm of what was deemed important enough to tuck away.... those are the true treasures. The emotions attached to those little things are safely tucked away somewhere inside you now.
That ethereal, fleeting moment of discovery will remain with you forever, in addition to the things you've chosen for your drawer.
No one can take that away from you.
Kind regards,
~Julia
Family is such a precious commodity. It is something I always saw in your books -- how much you valued your family and how you encouraged your readers to do the same.
ReplyDeleteI wake up each morning to bedding that is original Shabby Chic and when I have guests, they do too! It is a shame people out there are being unscrupulous. Luckily, you are one of a kind and originality just can't be duplicated.
Enjoy what comes next. Have fun with your kids!
~Marilee
Hi Rachel I always love visiting your blog. I have heaps and heaps of your fabrics which I will continue to use in my creations. All the best for the future I hope you can open your stores again soon.
ReplyDeleteWhat wonderful emotional items you have re discovered. Keep them safe.
ReplyDeleteYes, it is a bittersweet time for you Rachel. I am a real hoarder and I'm always conscious at the back of my mind that one day my daughter is going to be faced with the task of going through it all. What a treasure to be found amongst their vast collection of memories and love. Your mother was so beautiful in those photographs. Keep well. x
ReplyDeleteYou're absolutely right, the items that carry monetary value cannot compare to the small treasures with personal meaning. Both my parents are gone now and when it came time to sort through their house I found that my mother had kept virtually nothing of the past. I don't know where I get it from therefore but Im clearly very sentimental because I keep just about everything that I regard as important. I hope my girls will appreciate this glimpse into the past in years to come, just as you are doing now.
ReplyDeleteSo many heartfelt memories there. Packing and moving is always such an emotional experience. Good luck with it, Rachel. p.s. VERY much looking forward to your new book in September!
ReplyDeleteHi Rachel, you sound strong to me, doing what you have to do. It is very hard to pack up your parents homes. I remember going through that process, it was the house I grew up in. My sister wanted very little, I kept all the letters, photos, and more. I guess its the nature of my business. Although one of my daughters and her husband bought that house and now my granddaughter lives in the same house I grew up in. I know when you are done with your "Moving & Packing" business, we will all see you bounce back stronger than ever. For me, personally, I can't wait for that day, I'm looking forward to it!! And of course, "your book", can't wait for that to be published!!
ReplyDeleteTake care of yourself, Sue
It seems that your life at this moment is full of change on every front. Thank you for sharing this process with us.
ReplyDeleteAs you rearrange your life I wonder if "we", actually myself, will be able to let you go. Let you change, not expect that you will return to us the same and with the same. I miss your shop in Chicago so dearly. It was my once or twice a year treat (spring/fall-holidays). I do look forward to your return as your cocoon of family and love envelope you, growing you into another beautiful butterfly for this new portion of your life. Oh, so much you are teaching your children by your actions.
With Kindness,
Mary
p.s. A big hug and hello to Elizabeth from your Chicago store from Mary in the Pink coat for spring and the White down coat for winter :)
Such a meaningful post. Something we all have to go through at some point. Seems like you have a lot of wonderful memories and are enjoying the time with your dad.
ReplyDeleteSo hard to do this, but what wonderful bits & pieces & memories jogged. When my father died, my mom moved to a smaller house - did I want anything, she asked? I live very small, but that table, I said - the bluish - green one. I'll take that. In her house, so small - in my house, not so much - it takes up more room than I'd thought. But it sits by the front door and I see it every morning & I smile. I hope you smile, too, at the things you keep.
ReplyDelete:) Debi
thank you for such a lovely post...i'm not much of a reader either.
ReplyDeletepictures, colors, & images always catch my eye first...can read a lot from these.
missing your store on montana... keep creating your beauty for the world.
Hello, Rachel...you are a woman "on the move" and on a roll; so busy.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing with us your absolutely beautiful comments and photos of closing one chapter of your life in the letting go of your childhood home on behalf of your father. I face this when my own widowed mother leaves me...an only child...sooner than later, I fear. To go through my childhood home, by myself, in these middle-aged years seems daunting to me. I wish I could find a way not to dread it. It will be emotionally and physically hard on me, I think. I need to gear up for it; I think your post really helps comfort me. I know many before us have had to do this same thing. My mother lives in the same home she and my dad lived in for 53 years and counting...young parents with a tiny toddler (me); my brother (now deceased) yet to be born. No wonder my mom can't bear to think of leaving this house, even to live with me so that I could help her more.
My father's bundles of near-daily love letters to my mother from World War II still rest in his army duffel bag in the attic. The old Hoover vacuum cleaner box, which Mother gleaned for use as a storage box in the 1940s, sits high atop a shelf, Christmas ornaments they bought as newlyweds not touched since the old-age years of no longer being able to climb up to bring them down. Passed on to his son-in-law, here lies my grandfather's tools, which belonged to HIS father in the 1800s, in their designated places inside the old wood tool chest on Dad's workbench as they have for all of my memory. Here is the oil can with which my father would lubricate the wheels of my little roller skates. I miss my dad.
Mom has every drawer, closet and cupboard filled with keepsakes similar to what you have found...little glimpses into her everyday life; things upon which she placed value, the bits and pieces.
How will I do this? How can I part with anything? What will I do with all of it? No one follows me; I am the last of my genealogical line. I pledge to try really hard to find the right (new) homes for all the treasures I don't keep for myself.
I'll try to take heart from your thoughts and observations, as you currently "live" my future worries.
I hope you can get home by mid-summer and enjoy being together in one place with your children before the fall, although I'm sure it will be hard to leave your father in England. Looks like you will have one foot in each place but perhaps you've become accustomed to straddling the Atlantic for awhile now.
Your post did soothe because I do think we are a very large company of women who wind up with the hands-on tending to our aging parents and, although it is extremely rewarding to give back to them, it is quite consuming and mostly I am drained by day's end, with my own life completely on hold. Anyway, I know I am not alone.
Thank you again for keeping in touch with your design/lifestyle fans (across the oceans!). I had a joyful thing happen a couple of weeks ago. A neighbor with whom I was not well acquainted, invited me to her home and I walked in to my week's delight: Shabby Chic. Instant recognition...instant kinship! She showed me the pieces she'd bought at your Montana location. Be assured that authentic Shabby Chic lives on in lovely homes, large and small, across the many miles. We are a special sisterhood!
My post is now too long, but I wanted to say, "Take care of yourself, and be well!" I hope you still have your white and pretty cottage in Malibu, so that you can enjoy the summer garden and sea!
Thank you for sharing. I imagine your "forever to keep chest of drawers" will be bulging at the seams now ...
ReplyDeleteI just learned about all of the Shabby Chic stores and production ending. I'm grieving! Thank you for sharing your gift with the world. A little bit of my own world has been altered, because of your contribution ...
Blessings on the packing and moving endeavors ... and on the journeys-yet-to-be-had that they represent.
I think this task has come at a perfect time for you. Such a beautiful post! It makes me remember when I helped my mother with the emptying of my grandparents home. So many memories, so many treasures. It hurt to give things away. The life that was there came to a close, but life goes on and new things fill in. It amazes me. I like the saying that "life is a journey". I think you are wise to enjoy your time machine travels through your past. It is time well spent and a bundle of love to soak up.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful post! I know exactly what you are going through. I did the same thing for my grandmother not too long ago and it was so lovely going through old things. I always enjoy reading your posts! Thank you!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful post.
ReplyDeleteFor a long time I've lived by the rule of loving everything in my home, whatever its era, cost or age, or what other people's taste may be, and continued these beliefs into my working life - thank you for sharing then to be an inspiration and thank you for sharing now. Suzy *hugs*
ReplyDeleteThis is definitely a bittersweet journey. I now live and my grandparents house and they did not throw away thing either. My mother could not bear the task of what to keep. So, I did most of it. There are a few things I wish I would have kept, but not too many.
ReplyDeleteHowever, it looks like you have a much bigger task than I did.
Sorry, to hear about your website and products.
Happy packing!
Crystal
What a beautiful post. I enjoyed seeing some of your mum's treasures, it is important that we remember our loved ones and carry on what we loved about them.
ReplyDeleteI will surely miss your Shabby chic stores. I was fortunate to vist one last year in NYC! I was certainly in heaven - I felt peace as soon as I entered the store.
Although you are going through some changes - I am a firm believer that God never closes one door without opening a new one. May this journey be a rewarding one!! The best is yet to come!
Warmest Blessings,
Amy Sutter
Rachel - Wanted to write & let you know how much I appreciate your style. I am going to manage a small guest house in Goa, India and purchased a few of your Union Jack wall hangings and had a lady add a border of linen on each side & will used them as bedspreads for twin beds in the guest house, to be appreciated by all the wonderful British tourists I hope to have! Thought you may enjoy a new use for one of my favorite items of yours, other than your sofas. Happy I can take a little memory of your stores with me. --Kevin H. (bocon9999@aol.com)
ReplyDeleteDear Rachel,
ReplyDeleteI had heard that perhaps your stores were closing but had no idea that all closed. I was fortunate to visit your Newport Beach, CA store back a few years ago. Always wanted a comforter cover, but had to settle on the Mervyns and Target Shabby Chic line instead, not that those are bad, just different. :)
I am happy that you are keeping busy. I am sorry to hear about your mother's passing; mine passed 4 1/2 years ago now, and my father now 12 years ago. Seems strange, really, and we are working on going through the house (actually, one of my brothers and his wife, who live next door).
I love seeing your girl handwriting on your school report card! And don't you just love having your mother's handwriting on that envelope? Emails are quick and wonderful and we do get the essence of what someone is saying, but a lovely writing desk and pen and notepaper are still best, I feel.
I have been thinking, as another friend on this blog wrote, that God is perhaps opening another window for you. I think we all need time to reflect on family, on loss, time to rearrange our lives, our minds. Time to find peace.
As one of your British war signs stated: " Carry on." We look forward to whatever direction God is taking you in next. Thank you for making our chaotic world that much lovelier with all of your designs past and future!
God bless,
Barb
I sit reading this post by an open window and the most beautiful dewy green grass scent wafted in.. Just thought I'd share. Anyway, my Dad passed away in April and I am just beginning the process of grieving and healing. This post put me in such a peaceful frame of mind, I can't wait to putter at his house this weekend...thank you. I'll be sure to take my time and savor it all...
ReplyDeletevor
Such a beautiful post with such sweet treasures, thank you for sharing these lovely photos.
ReplyDeletelove
Alison
x
Just moments before reading your post I too was going through boxes of "junk". I had paused (for over an hour !!) to read a gorgeous old children's prayer book. On the inside cover was the sticker showing my award for 2nd prize at Sunday School when I was 5 years and three months old. Oh the bliss of childhood family memories !!
ReplyDeleteHi Rachel,
ReplyDeleteI lived at 4th and Montana for ten years and decorated my home with most of your Shabby Chic items. Your workers were always friendly and helpful and I still treasure my Shabby Chic items - at this very moment, I am sitting on my white down sofa that I purchased from you over 12 years ago and it is still like new and divine.
I am sorry to see you close your doors but very happy for this new path in your life.
Good luck to you.
From a loyal fan, Juli.
these are our true treasures, for sure. the memories that linger after everything we thought important, is no longer infused w/such meaning. keep calm and carry on as they say!
ReplyDeleteAs someone who has moved lots of times in the last few years I know that brown tape and those boxes well!! I to am trying to get all the precious stuff into a managable chest!! I loved the sketch of your grandfather..I too have a WW11 sketch of my Dad drawn by a fellow squaddie!!! It is framed and one of my most loved things. Take care..Kay x
ReplyDeleteI just found your blog and am sorry to hear about your Mum. It seems you have lots of special memories that will live on.
ReplyDeleteI wish you love and peace and will keep you in my prayers.
xo,
cristin
http://simplifiedbee.blogspot.com/
Thank-you for sharing
ReplyDeleteRachel, every upholstered piece of furniture in my home is Shabby Chic... all purchased in Santa Monica years ago. I've had these pieces for about 15 years, since my early 20s, right after I got married. My children, Ian and Lily (14 and 11) have grown up on them. They have been through two pregnancies, a divorce and eight moves. My mother calls my Elegant Sofa the "Magic Sleep Sofa" since you can't sit on it without having an overwhelming urge to take a long nap. Your vision and creativity have helped us to create a home, a sanctuary, a nest that has seen us through the best and worst of times. I have spent hours being inspired by your books and heeding your gentle reminders that imperfection and beauty go hand in hand. My dream was to always keep these pieces and re-slip them someday (when my nest emptied.) I'm truly sorry to hear about your losses. I pray that you will have the strength to grieve with courage and look forward with hope to what lies ahead.
ReplyDeleteI can so relate to this. Back in 2007, we cleaned out my childhood home. Both parents have passed and the job, was enormous. We sorted for a week through all the memories and discarded the rest. It took two large dumpsters and six truckloads to empty the house. It was bittersweet for sure.
ReplyDeleteBut I'd do it all over again, because it was fun and sad as well.
Treasure it all.
Ciao
Hello Rachel,
ReplyDeleteI am hoping and dreaming to still get some of your beautiful fabric... waiting to see you come forth again like a butterfly,"reborn". Then I saw that some places have your fabric. Heeding your warning, I am wondering how to know for sure that they are yours? Is there any tip, if they have your sign...??? I have a place in mind that has several stores (brick and mortar) and a website. I am not sure if you can help.
I also had a vision of a BEAUTIFUL Shabby Chic OR Rachel Ashwell Boutique Hotel. ( had this dream for some time.)
Thank you for still keeping in touch with your admirers as we look forward to the future also:)
With Kindness,
Mary
BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL
ReplyDeleteRachel, Beautiful post. My grandmother has inspired me daily with design and family tasks.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.teatimeconsultants.blogspot.com
Just last July, my husband and I were at the San Francisco store with photos of the outside. Love your fabrics. I know my grandmother would of enjoyed your style. She was from South Wales and came to the United States in the early 1900s.
With Kindness,
Brenda
I remember it well, the sorting, cleaning, packing and distribution of family heirlooms. Both my Mum and Dad have been gone for many years and I am surrounded by the treasures of their lives. It is a beautiful thing and brings me quiet soothing pleasure. As you walk this path may you find many quiet pleasures to treasure.
ReplyDeleteI miss your shop, and enjoy all your beautiful books. They have inspired my in untold ways. Thank you and God's blessings to you.
hola Rachel me gusta todo lo shabby chic acabo de descubrir tu blog quisiera preguntarte donde puedo conseguir esas preciosas telas que utilizas ya que aca en Argentina no las puedo conseguir te envio saludos a vos y toda tu linda familia con cariño ¡¡¡ROSALUNA¡¡¡
ReplyDeleteIt was so wonderful to read your blog and see all of the treasures you had found at your Mum and Dads. I could almost smell the old paper and feel the textures...and feel the love that went into the saving of all of those old bits and pieces. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeletewow, that house must be full of memories! It's sad to hear your mom is no longer with us.
ReplyDeleteRachel - I just came across your blog and have been reading every detail for hours. It is shocking to me to find out about your business. I want to share with you the impact that you have had in my life.
ReplyDeleteYou see, you are much much more than merchandise in a store. You are a way of life. You have given definition to the way something feels in your soul...that excitement that occurs when you spot on object that makes you want to sing! You have given this experience a name and a reason to embrace it and live it.
Thank you for giving me the experience of this focus in my life. It continues to give me such incredible joy. I am confident that your next endeavor will more than top your past endeavors, because you take with you what you have learned from your past experiences.
Here's looking to what the future holds for you!
Lisa Stone
www.lstonedesignsbridal.blogspot.com
Rachel - I just came across your blog and have been reading every detail for hours. It is shocking to me to find out about your business. I want to share with you the impact that you have had in my life.
ReplyDeleteYou see, you are much much more than merchandise in a store. You are a way of life. You have given definition to the way something feels in your soul...that excitement that occurs when you spot on object that makes you want to sing! You have given this experience a name and a reason to embrace it and live it.
Thank you for giving me the experience of this focus in my life. It continues to give me such incredible joy. I am confident that your next endeavor will more than top your past endeavors, because you take with you what you have learned from your past experiences.
Here's looking to what the future holds for you!
Lisa Stone
www.lstonedesignsbridal.blogspot.com
Rachel: I have been following your blog and reading your books it seems like for years. I just felt such a need to let you know how sorry I am that so many things have happen to you recently, especially the loss of your Mother. I know that if you put your trust in Jesus, He will help you through this. I will continue to pray for you. Thank you for being so honest and open. Martha
ReplyDeleteDear Rachel, I am so sorry to hear about your mum. It is obvious from reading your post, that your love of design, and your creativity, come from your extremely interesting and artistic parents. I bought a little cushion this weekend, whose motto I would like to share with you 'What you loved as a child stays in your heart forever'. I have no doubt that your children will have some beautiful memories of their own with such a wonderful mum.
ReplyDeleteHello Rachel, i was so sad to find out your stores were closing. I loved everything you designed. Such pretty, comfy, wonderfully indulgent design. When im able to afford it, where will i find such beautifull things. I truelly fell in love with the Shabby Chic" style since first time i laid eyes on your books and your In Style series. If you could put together dvd's of all your shows i will be the first to purchase them.Wishing you and your loved ones all the best. Sorry to hear about your Mom, my best regards. Gris
ReplyDeleteI was very touched by your post, Rachel. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Always remember that God never gives us more than we can handle. I am so looking forward to the new book in September, each of your books and DVD's have provided me with so many peaceful afternoons, dreaming and reading or watching. Thinking of you...
ReplyDeleteWell sadly, I cant imagine people sticking a tag on items that werent originally from your warehouse-- sounds silly, infact the stolen tag's makes me sad with what is going on with the employees of Shabby Chic, as a client who spent so much money with you--and LOVED my things It saddened me to find out that all along some unscrupulous employees were posing under alias' to sell to us Shabby Chic buyers/ collectors, "the ring", frankly has gotten sickening. Some have wondered, at times, if you were even behind it..I feel sick and betrayed, Apparently a "customer service " manager of your s by the name of Monica, has used a Krystal Thorpe and Erin Hughes to go behind and sell Shabby Chic items to your loyal clients,this is not new, it had been going on way before you filed Chapt 11 --selling damaged, used , ripped goods and GOUGING prices, it has led back to employess who are emailing your loyal clients, Monicas name has just come out, and apparently there was so much bought ( IF they infact paid for it ) with HUGE discounts that alias' were used to solicit your clients, they have a garage full and this is not anything new...the treatment of your loyal followers in the end of Shabby was deplorable, now understand why some not so nice folks making something we all love so very dirty---- many of us have been taken advantage of by Monica and her "racket" now the truth will come out---the people out there acting in an unethical way and abusing your clients, were actually on the inside, I am very sad:( While I sympathise with anyone going thru tough times,andhate for anyone to lose there job )many Shabby Chic clients have been made away of the staggering numbers in this bankrupcy. We have also been made aware you are far from poor, as many of us still struggle to pay for a beloved duvet your employess sell at $600.
ReplyDeletePlease understand it is not your fans stealing tags or ideas, we want to celebrate a style we love, but the person in Canada and your customer service manager that arent so loyal are hurting us all.
Hi Rachel,
ReplyDeleteIt's Cheryl from Summer Cottage Antiques in Petaluma, CA. I went into the business of "shabby chic" because of you. I adore you and you were so kind when you came into my store. I have left the business and returned to nursing here in San Francisco. I live 3 blocks from your former store on Fillmore Street. My entire flat is decorated with beautiful found objects, roses, paintings, and I dearly treasure them all. I'm saddened that your stores are closed but I know in my heart that you will return to that which you love so much. All my best, Cheryl
Oh Rachel, come to Washington D.C.! I would love to meet you!
ReplyDeleteHi Rachel, I just found your blog for the first time today and spent much time absorbing your every word.
ReplyDeleteI couldn't help but notice something and wondered if you yourself had come to the realization as well...
The last twenty years you have been known to inspire us with your decorating style and beautiful products. You, my dear, single handedly changed the homes of millions of people.
Perhaps you are now meant to change the LIVES of millions of people. Not by your pretty products, but by showing others how to bounce back honestly and gracefully.
We are living in terrible economic times and unfortunately your story is all to common (on a much less grander scale of course). Many of your loyal fans have lost their own jobs and/or businesses.
I truly belive your business will bounce back and you will serve as an inspiration to millions in a way you had never dreamt possible.
One of my favorite quotes is "Life is what happens while you were planning something else." (John Lennon)
STAY STRONG! You don't know it yet, but the best is yet to come!
I loved seeing the handwritten note from your mom. Mine left a note in my lunchbox almost daily even through high school and still left them for me from time to time when I was an adult - sometimes it would be a quick email to say she was thinking of me, or it might be another handwritten one she tucked somewhere. They always made me feel so treasured.
ReplyDeleteI recently came across one she wrote out on a little piece of notepaper that says:
The sun is shining in my life today because I get to see you.
Love, Mom
I held it dear when she gave it to me and even more so now that she's gone. That handwritten proof of a mom's love for her daughter is priceless. I also noticed a note sticking out from a book she gave me when I moved out on my own - I didn't remember it being there before, but a few months after she died, there it was poking out from the pages, and it was just what I needed to read that day.
Hi Rachel, Very sorry to here about your mother, our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family at this time.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your family treasures, and that your packing and unpacking will end soon so you can start relaxing.
It also saddens me to here you have closed down all your stores, and to read some of the reasons why! I did go across to see if I could place an order of your up coming new book that will be released in October to find the website is closed too! will the ladies of Australia be able to purchase your book through your website in October? Will you be opening your website for sales of your book then, as I'll be devastated if I can add your new book to my Rachel Ashwell Shabby Chic library/collection.
Good luck to you with your up and coming adventures Rachel, I hope to hear from you in the future, the interior world would'nt be the same with out you.
All my love Kirstie.
I apologize as this is probably not the appropriate forum but I am quite frustrated with my experience with Shabby Chic. I have tried several times to contact someone without much luck. I placed an order at the SoHo store several months back. The overstuffed couch to be exact which I had applied $1800 of store credit that I had with the SoHo location. Needless to say, I never received the item and I was never contacted. No one ever indicated that the company was going bankrupt, nor did anyone reach out to me to notify me that the order had been cancelled or to refund my store credit or let me apply it to some other item. I have since tried several times to contact the various locations but without much luck.
ReplyDeleteI would greatly appreciate any assistance in the matter as it has been quite frustrating. janice004@gmail.com
Thank you.
Janice
Rachel, please come to Long Island, New York. You have so many fans here who loved your East Hampton store and miss you terribly! Can't wait for your new book. Best of luck to you in your future endeavors!
ReplyDeleteRachel it was such a pleasure meeting you at brimfield and haveing you sign my book, so sorry to hear about your mom i also lost my mom and the night of her passing my husband was woke by our grandfather clock chiming a song that was not programmed ino it which has stumped our clock repair man so they do reach out,I hope you relize how many hearts you have touched with your shabby chic style, you have made a feeling of home and closeness to so many, and made people who cannot afford the the chic style affordable, for now finding that one little treasure at a tag sale,or fleamarket is a pricless piece from the past reborn,everytime my husband repairs or repaints an old piece of furniture he says hes giving it a new life,and for that we thankyou.I hope to see you at my friend Hillarys Shop Tickled Pink In Seymour Conn. for a book signing sence so many hear would love to meet you and i am sure when you walk into her shop you will certainly feel TICKLED PINK. GOD BLESS JAN
ReplyDeleteDear Rachel; I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing and the closing of your stores. I love Shabby Chic and have 3 of your books and lots of your fabrics. The decorating world won't be the same without you. I wonder if we are somehow related way back when since my maiden name is also Greenfield. Good luck to you and your family in all that you do.
ReplyDeleteSincerely, Jennifer
HI Rachel, I love all of your furniture, style and design. My husband and I had one of your sofas that we LOVED and had a small 2 bedroom house furnished in shabby chic style. Our house burned down today and we lost everything!!! I wanted to write to see if you had any furniture, decor, anything that you could sell at a reduced rate to us or donate...I know that is a lot to ask but thought I would given our situation. We have 2 children ages: 3 months and 2 years. Thanks Kellie kellie@lola.ws
ReplyDeleteRachael
ReplyDeleteStrange how things happen, I was in NYC with a friend a few weeks ago, just pottering in and around Soho and came upon Shabby chic. Wondered round and of course you know what its like when you are with a dear friend you have not seen for ages, (far too busy gabbing to really look around). It was not until a week or so later that I saw a book/magazine that I realized it was the same Interior Designer from home (UK) and as a fellow designer (had my own business in the uk for many years) and artist I always was aware of your designs and used then wherever the need arose. I loved your style and decor items and never realized you had got so big,( so to speak).
As I read your blog it was with sadness that I see you have had to close some shops, I know I can do very little to help ,however, I did notice that while I was in your store there was very little art work that compliments your simple approach to design.
So I am sending you a link to my art work and to the white /black piece in specific, and as it can be customed to have as much or as little black as desired, I think it would compliment your more simpler designs as the white is more of an off white. and links the simpleness of your designs to the contemporary, Hope it is of use to you, and if you feel it might be something you could put ion your showroom with a view to selling then please do not hesitate to give me a call.
My art work is being shown in several public buildings and galleries in and around CT where I live.
If my art work is not the type of art you are looking for may I still wish you all the best and I will continue to try specify your furniture if I am able to. Although they are a bit backwards when it comes to design in CT they still love their swags tails frills etc here.
There is an artice 4 page article about me in the Hartford magazine this month, although it is not on line yet.
If you have trouble with the link below just cut and paste but dont forget the password
Password is KarenG password is case sensitive
http://www.photoshelter.com/c/dianadelucia/gallery/Karen-Gilston-Artist-Home-Staging/G0000BjdhWIaL65c
Regards,
Karen Gilston Interior Designer
Karenin Interiors
Simsbury Chamber of Commerce
Rotary Club of Simsbury and Granby
Soroptimist International of Farmington Valley
Tel: 860 408 9126
Cell: 225 324 2753
email: karen@kareninstudios.com
www.karenininteriors.com
Hi Rachel,
ReplyDeleteI am from Brazil and I loved your blogg...all things are wonderful...and of course that I will use some ideas!! Thanks for sharing!
BEST REGARDS,
Alexandra
Thanks for this brilliant article. I am delighted after reading this. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteIt's too informative.Thanks to share this great information.
ReplyDeleteMoving and Storage Service