Thursday, February 12, 2009

Step by Step

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Two weeks behind us with our decision to file Shabby Chic into Chapter 11. The process of restructuring Shabby Chic is underway.
Since my last blog entry we have received over 200 comments of sorrow but also extra-ordinary support.

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For someone who is used to a road of flea marketing, this road is complicated.
We are having to challenge our creative brains to process basic business understandings.

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Many people are asking me questions...
When will everything be ok again?
What is the worst that can happen?
I am not really thinking about these thoughts.
Some people have disappointed me, but that emotion is pale in comparison with loyalty, genuine care and strength of character of so many.

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Our Greenwich Avenue and East Hampton Stores have closed.
My staff were of such support to the end.

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Both landlords are gentlemen.
They took the time to travel to meet me last week for tea.

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They both expressed the sadness that we had to close down.
Their words were self-less and they shared with me their words of wisdom.
I will be touched forever.

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And I will take their advice to heart.

The Shabby Chic Team at the corporate office spend every moment strategizing our turnaround.
There has been many a night we find ourselves sitting in my office, regrouping of the day’s events and discussing the following days agenda.
Often we don’t even notice the sun has gone down, and we are talking in the dark with the exception of the light source from my computer.

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Sometimes in the wee hours of the night I have fears of the "what ifs".
But the cliché of "one step at the time", plays out perfectly here.
Each and every day there are goals and I simply focus on the present day.
I don’t use up my energy on the “what ifs”.

I have been spending some extra time in the stores and reminding myself how much I love what we sell and how much my customers appreciate the products in our stores.

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Customers and vendors who have been caught in our situation are more concerned that we will make it though, than they are about their orders and that fuels the little engine of Shabby Chic.
The load is heavy, but we keep going.

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I am happy to say I am finding the time to work on my next book, which will be available in the fall.
It is a perfect place to pour my heart and soul.
My raw feelings are bringing out pure creativity.

Bruce Springsteen’s latest hit, "Working on a Dream", inspires me.
We are all in this together, working on all our dreams.
Even though Shabby Chic is a reality, I am working on my dream of making Shabby Chic well again.
And as always, the best place to dream is in my Shabby Chic bed.

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I have read every comment posted on the Shabby Chic blog.
I'm touched at how much belief you have in me and that in one way, shape or form, all will be ok.
I have printed out all your comments and put them in “my forever to keep” drawer. As to me they deserve the permanence of paper, without fear of being lost with a delete button.

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Hazelnut Cottage comment on the Endurance Blog Entry: quoted on Tuesday February 2008…

"There is much guidance in what does not and cannot happen in my life as there is in what can and does - maybe more."
Parker Palmer

Shabby Chic is being guided with all that can happen from what cannot.

166 comments:

  1. Rachel You are such an inspiration to me and my daughter. We recently have had so many losses with Ma and Pa and 2 jobs all in a year. Yet we find peace and tranqulity in our rooms upstairs which are filled with things from you. We love you. May you find peace like you have given us in Texas.

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  2. So sorry to hear the news.
    I firmly believe that with each challenge comes greater creativity and a stronger desire to persevere allowing us to learn more about ourselves and what we really want from life.
    Sending many wishes for sunny days ahead ~ Rebecca

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  3. Hi Rachel

    Thank you for your open and honest blogs... I hope you find comfort and healing in writing them and reading our comments.
    I truely believe you will take Shabby Chic from strength to strength, in regrouping sometimes we see the road clearer and see opportunity when previously we saw "what if's". A solution is just waiting to be found...it will present itself when the moment is right. Maybe its hidden in your garden?? :) Feel good about all you have accomplished hun, you created a movement... to be honest you and your plight have not been far from my thoughts (as with the fires and floods over here in Australia) I can understand as we lost our business to fire. Difficult times are opportunities in disguise. Whether it be just to be able to sit and relax or write your new book (which I cant wait to read)I have found your strength inspiring. I do understand some people may hurt you, we where dropped like hot potatos by "friends" cause they had no cafe to go to. BUT in that I found the greatest gift of all.. the power to be me, the power to create again (as i am sure you will... keep dreaming!!) and there are some people who showed remarkable kindness.
    I will keep you in my prayers lovely lady.
    take care
    Vicki xx

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  4. Hi Rachel. I live in Australia where I guess it is already "tomorrow" so it looks like I get the privilege to, perhaps, be the first to respond to your last blog. Somehow I managed to miss the one prior to that so this all comes as a shock to me. I just wanted to let you know that you and Shabby Chic will be in my prayers. I know that God plays a part in your life, so I just wanted to encourage you with the verse "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6. I have held on to these words many times in my life and drawn strength from them.

    This might sound corny, but did you ever watch the movie "You've Got Mail" starring Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks? Meg's character, Kathleen, goes through a similar situation with her store, things look bad but, in the end things actually turn out even better. I know that's just a movie, but God can do that. (It might be worth watching it again.)

    I'm so looking forward to your next book, Rachel. I love that you share your heart, and allow yourself to be vulnerable... all while showing us how to make our homes something special. (I am even studying interior design now, and I am sure it is your influence that set me on this path.)

    Over the years I've noticed different designers and individuals "tweak" your style and give it another name, but to me it's simply a variation on the Shabby Chic style. So, thank you for what you began.

    So, bye for now, Rachel and "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him." Romans 15:13

    Sincerely
    Debbie Williams
    Queensland, Australia

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  5. Onward Ho!!! What is happening is a good thing. Just know. I always found myself humming John Lennon songs when I felt the world beating me up. All of his lyrics fit.
    All is well in the world today...Yeah!

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  6. Rachel wishing you all the best for the future and as you know shabby chic was founded based on flea market finds. You find your way around the flea market as you will find your way around this current situation. You rock. Sandy xo

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  7. RACHEL, you too will get through this bump in the road,

    " “What we call the beginning is often the end. And to make an end is to make a beginning. The end is where we start from.”

    My Bankruptcy was dishcarged on wednesday of this week, My weight has been lifted and for the first time in 10 years I can breath with peace, I now begin again, I have learnt so much and feel hopeful for my future.
    You are going to be ok and so will Shabby Chic, the light at the end will be worth it.
    You are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Bev

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  8. Shabby Chic will live forever...baby steps make big steps on the road to recovery. Shabby Chic has just cought a cold, with the right treatment...she will be fine! Happy Valentine's Day!

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  9. http://thebunnybungalow.com/2009/02/hearts-and-shoulders-for-rachel-ashwell.html

    I send you a piece of my heart and a shoulder to lean on. Best wishes, Rachel.

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  10. Everything will be okay soon. Just wanted to share this with you. I read this and I immediately knew I am bound to share this wonderful words to somebody. Be strong.

    "The way we get to live forever is through memories stored in the hearts and souls of those whose lives we touch. That’s our soul print. It’s our comfort, our emotional nourishment at the end of the day and the end of a life. How wonderful that they are called up at will and savored randomly. It seems to me we should spend our lives in a conscious state of creating these meaningful moments that live on. Memories matter."
    -Leeza Gibbons

    and one more...

    "What I realized is that there is not just one big moment of courage in our lives. There are many. These moments come to us in different ways. At times we are forced into a leap (unexpected pregnancy, when parents or partners pass away, when we loose our job). At times we are called into a leap (when someone invites us for a trip of a lifetime, when our partner wants to move to a new city, when we are offered a chance, when we take the "money maker" role to support our family). Then there are also the daily tiny leaps we take for the sake of adventure (when we try new types of food, music, when we go out on a date, when we talk to a stranger, when we transition from blogger friends to real life friends). No matter how small, silly or hard, tiny, dramatic or forgotten... All leaps are important because little by little, we live through change, we figure out how to cope, we move forward, we learn who we are, and we build our confidence for the bigger leaps, the ones we seek for ourselves."
    -Alex

    I am a huge fan of yours and I will continue to be forever. I was so disappointed when you went out of air on tv. I thought something was wrong with my tv. Thinking about going on air again...at HGTV perhaps? You will fit perfectly there. No other show has your style.

    Much love,
    Mary L from CA

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  11. Rachel,
    You are getting an incredible second chance to start over again, only this time with the knowledge you have gathered from both your successes and failures. It's like becoming 21 again but knowing what you know now.... Think about that for a moment and how much clearer your decisions would be. Tread softly but surely and remember that moderation in everything is the key. I'm envious actually as I am still waiting for my second chance to reveal itself. Good luck, be well.
    Carol

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  12. Rachel~ Thinking of you. I know the universe is on your side. ~Mandy

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  13. You can do it...your positive attitude will pull you through!
    Janet

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  14. Wishing you much luck, grace, and goodness on this season in your life.

    Teresa

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  15. I'm so glad you have your back straight and are headed in the right direction with the support of those around you. You will come out on the other side of this, stronger and better than ever. We are all here supporting you, and each other as we make our way through difficult times.

    All the best, Dede

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  16. Oh how I love your style, fabric, and designs. I pour through your older book and still love every page. I still have the bumper from my daughter's crib with the lovely cabbage roses and plan to use that fabric some way in a project. This economy is hard and forcing us each to make tough changes, but I hope your company survives and continues to inspire us all. Best wishes!

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  17. So glad you are seeing your way through this. There are loads of people out there knowing you are going to make it. I'll be first in the queue for the book but autumn seems a long way away so I'll keep looking at your fab photos on the blog.
    xx

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  18. I am so sorry to hear about what you are going through right now. I have great confidence that you will be able to get Shabby Chic back on it's feet again.
    Although I have never met you, I have always felt you to be such a kindred spirit in so many ways. Your stories about growing up remind me so much of my own.My grandmother has collected antique dolls and toys since she was a little girl. She even had an antique doll and toy museum in her old two story farmhouse in far Northern California during the 50's - 80's.
    We were always scouring the estate sales and flea markets. Our favorite dolls were those that were well loved and a little disheveled.If we absolutely needed to restore anything, we made sure we do so with period fabrics and "bits and bobs" as you say.My grandmother passed her love for tattered beauty on to me.You have helped me to expand on this love in so many wonderful ways. The stories that you have shared about your dear mother stir up so many personal memories for me.
    I know that I speak for so many that love Shabby Chic when I say that there is no other line of home products available today other than Shabby Chic that can actually elicit a heightened emotional response to beauty.Your products are timeless and full of "soul".
    Thank you for sharing your vision of beauty with us. You have enriched the daily lives of so many people.
    We love you! Our prayers are with you!

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  19. The Shabby Chic look, which you have created and inspired first came around when I went through my divorce and had my first place of my own, you helped get me through a very tough time and making my space my own, with your books to help and guide me, breathed life back into me as I recharged every day in my fresh space which was light, airy and my own, with your influence. You have helped me through many dark days and helped make them brighter, I know that you will get through yours as well. I continue to look to you for inspiration. My best.

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  20. Hi Rachel,
    I am so sorry to read about what has happened of late in your life and my hear goes out to you and Shabby Chic x.
    Harriet Beecher Stowe (1811-1896) wrote.......

    When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you till it seems you could not hold on a minute longer,never give up then for that is the place and time that the tide will turn.

    I know the tide will turn for you Rachel and with it your pretty sea glass will wash ashore!
    Love and wishes Kristina XxX
    ps us UK girls are rooting for you too x

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  21. Once again, you bring tears to my eyes, and my heart aches for all that you are being asked to bear...I find again how much I admire you and how I would hope to walk with such grace if I find my self in your shoes.You have taught us all much in this 20year span.. I always remember in the first book, when you expressed liking to see your pretty dishes in the dishwasher, and I too had always felt the same, something so small and yet each day bringing a simple sweet small joy... I know you know you are loved.... one foot in front of the other that's all that you must do now. Love Linda

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  22. Believe you can learn and improve with the challenge.

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  23. It has been a bit since I have visited so was unaware of all the things going on. I am so sorry. I will add you to my prayer list. I love your things. That is my favorite aisle in Target. Always looking for it on the internet too. I believe you can turn it around. Blessings & Praying for you
    Debbie Howard

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  24. I shop at the Corte Madera store. I was at The Village today. I am very sad....even though I got a great deal on sheets. I would rather the store stay open and to pay full price!

    I hope you keep the strong members of your team, especially if they are able to move to other stores. Those who believe in your product and what they sell - it really comes through to shoppers. I call two of them M&M (I don't want to name names but I"m sure you know who they are). They are the greatest, your store will be missed not only by me but many others in the North Bay area.

    Good luck on the reorganization. I have no doubt you will pull all your strength and get things back on the right track.

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  25. regards,
    Catherine

    (sorry!)

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  26. dear rachel, you have given me inspiration in my life really , i think its safe to say we all go trough rough times , i believe in shabbychic youre an icon youre brand will live on forever hopefully through generations,this is my favorite prayee, if i can do some good today ,if i can serve alongs lifes way lord show me how,if i can right a human wrog ,if i can help to make one strong ,if i can cheer with a smile or song,lord show me how, if i can aid one in distress ,if i can make a burden less ,if i can spread more happinnes lord show me how.with love leslie lesliecampos4@gmail.com

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  27. Dear Rachel,
    I only just found your blog and have read Endurance and Step by Step and want to send you my best wishes in the months ahead. I truly believe everything happens for a reason, that we have lessons to learn from everything. You have such a positive attitude about this situation and that will help you to come out of this stronger and better than ever. I know this is just a blip on the radar of Shabby Chic and that soon I will be reading a blog entry about how much better everything is! Take Care,

    Claudia

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  28. Rachel...I have all the confidence in the world in you and Shabby Chic
    will be whole again. You have inspired so many of us and now it is time to give back to you!!! Anxiously awaiting your new book.

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  29. I once heard this saying, "Want to know who your friends are? Open a business."
    Out of situations like this, we learn so much and we grow stronger as well. I see Shabby Chic coming back bigger and better!
    I'm looking forward to your new book
    Your fan,
    Berlin

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  30. I'm so sorry for your difficulties. Mama used to say,"I'm so glad that trouble don't last always." One day soon you'll look up and be on the other side of this storm.You are such a talented designer whose unique "style" helped so many of us define our own.I have no doubt the best is yet to come for you!

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  31. All precious things discovered late
    To those that seek them issue forth,
    For Love in sequel works with fate,
    And draws the veil from hidden forth.

    Lord Tennyson

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  32. Rachel, I remember purchasing your first book and being so inspired by your philosophy about decorating. "Nothing should be too precious." I now use my Grandmother's dishes...which were once off limits in a cabinet to be looked at but not touched. My Granny's dishes are more precious to me now because I use them - everyday. Some of them have gotten nicked and chipped along the way, but that's OK because each time I use the dishes I think of my dear Granny - and what's more precious than that? I also remember family gatherings when the dishes were used...sweet memories!

    Everything in my cottage has washable slipcovers including my sweet Shabby Chic Bean Loveseat. My dogs and grandchildren can have cookies and ice cream and play on the furniture...no worries! Everytime I launder the slips, they just look better!

    Thanks for teaching me that "perfect" is in the eye of the beholder.

    I am confident that you will be back - stronger and better than ever!

    Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

    XO
    Donna ~ Simplicity Cottage

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  33. Rachel, I wanted to tell you that what you have brought to the decorating world is much more than fabric and beautiful furniture. Your lovely style has influenced many of us to beautify our homes with one thought in mind...we want our family and friends to love coming to our homes. If our homes are warm and lovely on the inside then those that we love will always want to come back. You have directed many women back to their nesting instincts...nests are safe and where we strengthen our young. You have helped so many of us achieve that with your extraordinary style. I'm deeply moved by your transition. Don't ever, ever give up. We will support you whatever direction you take.
    Blessings,
    Debbie

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  34. Maybe you could team up with J Crew and sell t-shirts and shirts with your floral prints. Also, how about a Shabby Chic magazine.

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  35. When I first heard the news my stomach did a flip flop. Though I only know you through your books and products, it felt like this tragedy was happening to a friend. I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this mess and the dreaded numbers. Don't forget to take care of yourself during this stressful time.

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  36. Rachel, I am sorry that times are so tough right now and you find yourself caught in it in this way. Your creativity and passion for life always inspires me and I am confident that you will find your way through this with yourself intact and stronger and brighter than ever before. Take care of yourself and don't forget to breathe. Susan

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  37. Rachel - I have admired your style for years and was so sorry to hear about all that you and your company are going through. Times right now are difficult for so many businesses, you are certainly not alone.

    The sampler you pictured in your post says it all: "Give to the world the best you have and the best will come back to you." I truly believe that you will come out of this better than you were before. I wish you all the luck in the world and can't wait to see what you do next!

    Ellen

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  38. Sometimes we need to take some backwards steps to move forward with more pace and acheievment!!
    You have a wonderful support base out here you will flourish and fly again!!
    mandii

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  39. Rachel you have been such an inspiration to me and I know that you will come back bigger and stronger than ever. Your loyal fans will NEVER leave you...you are in my prayers and I saw this sweet yet true saying in one of your treasured books that I have..."My God shall supply ALL my needs" He will and we are right there with you cheering you on and holding your hand! Shabby Chic will live on forever!

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  40. Rachel,
    I like so many others have been a fan for a long time.I own a couple of cottages which I run as accommodation and they are and have been inspired by you and Shabby Chic.I often turn to your books for an idea or a thought that I can incorporate or to build on.
    It is really only when you have your own business that you understand the love,blood,sweat and tears that goes into it - certainly that is how it was for me.
    You will always have your passion and from that will come inspiration in its many guises.
    I have no doubt your journey will be one to inspire those who will by necessity need to do as you are.
    It is a heavy burden but one made easier by the many hands being offered to help you shoulder it.
    Be strong Rachel,
    and I offer you my hand.....

    Suzanne

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  41. I only discovered your website and your blog in November. But when I heard your news I felt about it as I'd feel about an old friend. My thoughts and prayers have been with you since I heard. I think you have what it takes to come out of this even stronger than before! Blessings on your work now, at this hardest time...

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  42. Dear Rachel
    I found your books and have used so many of your creative ideas and your philosophy over the years. Thank you for providing such a useable framework.
    I am an Englishwoman living deep in the beautiful countryside of SouthWest France and Shabby Chic thrives well here.
    BUT my English reserve has never allowed me to even blog-comment before and I do so now because you are English, too, and I presume that under your bonnet of rose petals and charming things is a stiff upper lip. You will pick yourself up, dust Shabby Chic down and emerge svelte, exclusive, fresh and desirable as ever.

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  43. I know that all will be well - I can feel it.
    You are an amazing woman, and you are surrounded by a team of equally amazing people - and you have the best wishes of great numbers of us who love everything Shabby Chic has come to stand for.

    You will be an inspiration to so many who are going through their own hardships. I am in awe of your will to fight.

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  44. Dear Rachel,

    We are so sorry to hear this news although we do know if anyone can make a smashing comeback, it's you.

    Throughout all of your successes you have remained grounded and 'one of us' - that kind of thing does not go unnoticed.

    All the best to you in 2009 - perhaps this will turn out to be the year where new doors are opened and you are pleasantly surprised with the results. We wish you all the best.

    With love and support...
    Joy and Janet
    xo

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  45. I love your style, thank you for introducing it to all of us. You are an amazing lady, I believe in you!! ~cindy s~

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  46. Cheering you on, Rachel! It's tough for us fleamarket girls to be surrounded by numbers. But know you are supported in thought and prayers, by those who know you personally, and those of us, like you, who are following our dreams. You go, girl!
    xo Lidy

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  47. Rachel, I have every confidence that you will be back on your feet prospering in so many ways once again. You are a very strong and determined women who has very much inspired so many of us. Can't wait for your next book.

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  48. Sending hope and prayers for encouragement, direction and wisdom as you move forward. You have inspired so many by your lovely style and graceful living.
    Kindly, ldh

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  49. Thank you for being such a great inspiration for so many people during the years. We know you will be back again. Take the time you need. We will be here, waiting for you when you are ready.
    All the best from
    Norway

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  50. Hi Rachel,

    I was shocked to read all this bad news. But indeed, step by step you will bounce back. I firmly believe that you can do this. Surround yourself with good and honest people, to help you and Shabby Chic through these coming months.

    We have met once at Maison et Object, a tradeshow in Paris (I gave you the yellow shoppingbag with the flowers) and as a big fan I was happy to read that a new book is on the way. Keep doing what you love to do, so you have plenty of material to write about.

    Stay positive and believe that Shabby Chic will come out of the ashes like a phoenix.

    Best wishes,
    Maureen

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  51. Dear Rachel.. you set the standard for creating a home that speaks of beauty, grace and family...... I know things are really tough but I truly believe with time and perserverance the economy will bounce back and so will your business. Thank you for the honesty via your blog. I have wondered about so many businesses I love like yours in this current horrific economy.. but I know with time it will all be well and more again. I find joy in every little thing you share.... this blog.. I loved your TV show etc. Perhaps you can offer and leverage some of this? Best regards, Gigi P mom to 2 little ones Charlotte, NC

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  52. my favorite saying that my favorite female mentor, boss and inspiration used to say to me was
    "put on some lipstick and forge ahead".
    It would be a great needle point pillow but more importantly it is great & wise advice. It tells you to keep everything in perspective, keep you head together and stay in present time, and keep moving forward.
    And having been there done that I can tell you that late at night when you are staring in the mirror wondering how you got to your present situation you will feel a lot better if you look better. .. really :)

    But I can also tell you that at one time in my life I reached all the goals I set for myself and then lost everything ... everything ...sometimes through very bizarre happenings.
    I am a tiny bit older than you and when everything finally became absolutely unsolvable with no hope to ever change it again, that is when, of course, everything changed again.
    You became a success by trusting your vision when it was unlike anyone else's vision ....so remember as you rebuild not to follow some other company's blueprint for success , follow your own vision. Dont trust all of those experts with years of experience with the best companies follow your vision and your instinct, trust yourself and your gut once again.... and put together your own band of gypsies,fortunetellers and visionaries to create your unique and special plan for your company ... IT is meant to be your circus, your party and that is when your success will continue in spite of everyone and everything.
    bless you and good luck !!

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  53. Hi Rachel.

    I don't know if you remember me and my husband, Steve. We have met you several times at flea markets when you were with Brendan, and at your store in Santa Monica.
    Steve and I wish you all the best.
    You were a victim of a lousy economy. Your sense of style and the wealth of inspiration your have given all of us designers and home owners should never be in doubt.
    All of us in the design community have felt the pressures this difficult time has laid on us. I am completely confident that you will come out of this situation stronger and more creative than ever.

    xo
    Brooke

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  54. Rachel, you have been on my mind so much these last few days that I felt compelled to write you. I know you probably don't remember me but I met you at the opening of your Austin store and have seen you out shopping in Round Top on occasion. I went in the Austin store today and felt so teary. I realize I don't even know you but I felt as if I had lost a friend. Your store was absolutely beautiful. Your timeless style is an inspiration to me and so many. Take care,
    Lauren

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  55. Can't wait for your next book, you are an inspiration and I know you will get through it!

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  56. Rachel,

    You have been such an inspiration to me, I feel we are kindred hearts. I cannot tell you how many times I've looked through the Shabby Chic books I own, and how many post-it notes remain in them over the years. You inspired me to follow my dreams, which I did knowing you and others had gone before me, paving the way. You will make it through this insane time!

    Sometimes, less is more. You'll get back to what you really need and love, and all will be well again. I look for you every time I'm at the Pasadena Rose Bowl, even though we've never met I still hope to bump into you one Sunday morning!

    Best wishes, strength, and courage to you!

    Kelie Grosso

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  57. Rachel, Thanks so much for sharing all you are going through. You are such a kind and caring person. You have created such beautiful items and have been an inspiration to so many of us. I pray that you find your way to bring things around and keep your ideas coming through. You keep the faith my dear. You will see it through. I hope people continue to support you and give you hope. Thanks for all you do!!

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  58. Rachel, I have been following your incredible journey since I happened to catch your tv program so many years ago. Right away I recognized a unique attitude toward decorating...and life! I have all your books and have read them many times. I especially adore your book on gift-giving - it is so personal and really made me really try to put more thought into the gifts I give. I look forward to your new book.

    I am so sorry to hear of the current situation with the Shabby Chic Company; I very much hope that all will work out.

    Best of luck to you...

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  59. An awesome post, you have such a way with words. I'm happy to hear you are working on another book. I have a feeling it will be your best. I live by: "love like you've never been hurt, work like you don't need the money, and dance like no one is watching"!! Take care Rachel, Sue Country Roads

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  60. I agree with Mary from California, I loved your work on TV and HGTV is my favorite channel on the tube!
    I went nuts trying to find the channel you moved to.

    I am excited about a new book from you. I have the others!

    Keep your chin up, this too shall pass!

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  61. As much as I like this style, I think that things in your stores are overpriced.
    Not to mention that, if they are really vintage, there is a danger in lead paint!
    I.K.

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  62. That a girl don't let it get you down. Push on and use your love of Shabby things to get you through.

    Perhaps use the comments from your blog for the inside covers of your new book, cut them and and position them so that the are all over the page.

    Like I said before, if you have to start again with only one store, then so be it.

    CIao

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  63. I think the difference between you and other companies in this economic downfall is this:
    acceptance
    responsibility
    perseverence
    perspective
    hope


    Keep up the faith. You have an amazing product, one that will stand the test of time and poor economy... one that provides a setting of peace and comfort... one that speaks to the heart.

    May God bless you and yours-
    Amanda

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  64. Rachel,
    The best is yet to come. Your work is brilliant and your spirit and attitude is admirable. You definitely have the right idea to take one step at time. No sense in worrying about tomorrow as today has enough trouble of it's own (easier said than done). Thank you for sharing with us and being so genuine. Can't wait to see what the future holds for Shabby Chic!
    You will be in my prayers!
    xx Trina

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  65. Dear Rachel,
    You truly have been an inspiration to so many! I remember reading your first book ~ at the time I longed to decorate my home but money was very tight. You opened up a whole new world to me. I didn't have to buy new in order to have a lovely home, in fact, by purchasing vintage and previously loved items I was able to transform my home into a blissful haven. There isn't a person who walks in that doesn't compliment the decor. For that I thank you! I also want to encourage you to stay the course (as I know you will). There is so much truth to the saying "that which does not kill you makes you stronger". Life is one big lesson, sometimes learned through much trial and sadness but learned all the same. I believe God does not give His children trials without also giving them the strength and courage to conquer them. I look forward to following your journey and will rejoice with you as you get back on your feet! Much love and thanks,
    Jan

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  66. Oh Rachel ~ you are such an inspiring lady. I find so much comfort in your words..in these terrible times. I never in my wildest dreams thought I would see times like these. I love the things I have from you...they bring me peace.

    Sending well wishes your way.

    Hugz,
    Michele

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  67. You sound like a real trooper, Rachel. I have faith that things will somehow turn out ok for you. SO looking forward to your new book - VERY excited about that!

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  68. Rachel,
    Excited for the next book! Keep the wonderful postive thoughts, it truly is contagious, even in these times! Love ya, Lori

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  69. Rachel ~ You are standing facing the "Y" in your path...I'm sure you will choose the right direction. You have been an an inspiration to so many and I, for one, look forward to what your future brings to you ~ and to all of us that follow your dreams in awe!

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  70. I remember carrying a beautiful bell jar home to Salt Lake City from your Fashion Island store. You are lovely and gracious and things will work out well...they have to, you have too many fans!

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  71. Rachel,

    The Shabby Chic lifestyle has changed my life in so many ways. Not only has my home transitioned into a beautiful and peaceful environnment, but I have had the opportunity to meet so many wonderful people who have the same love for Shabby Chic. Thank you for that. You are truly inspirational and I will always be a loyal supporter. Best wishes.

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  72. Hi Rachel,

    I have been a follower of your style since I was a little girl and am so sorry to hear about your misfortune. My mother and I have just opened a store in Australia and the recession is hitting everyone really hard here as well. Want to let you know that you're being supported, even on the other side of the world, and we'll all get through this difficult time together. Good luck! Monique.

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  73. You and Shabby Chic are an icon gir!! I totally believe that you will come out of this and on top!

    Think how many times Donald Trump has had to reinvent himself......and the world loves Shabby Chic way more than Donald !

    So dig deep, raise your chin high and surround yourself with supportive friends, faith and the most knowledgeable people you can get. Financial crisises are happening daily in today's world.
    Unfortunately the huge cross you have to bear sweetie is that you have to go through it publicly.

    I KNOW that you will be able to get through this with courage, dignity and grace.

    Thoughts and prayers your way,

    Bre
    http://chantillygrace.blogspot.com/

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  74. Rachel, I read "The Shabby Chic Home" right after I got married and moved out on my own. I remember reading it so carefully because there was so much to learn from it. Why shouldn't my dishwasher only be full of things that I love? I want you to know that my house today is filled with things that I love and it brings me peace every day, especially since I am home all day with my children. We have no Shabby Chic stores where I live but when I go to CA to visit family, my mom and I always make a point to visit and purchase something from your Santa Monica and/or Malibu stores. I look forward to your next book!
    -Noelle

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  75. Your writings are so from the heart. And as rough as it is right now your writings are so wonderfully written. Thank you for letting us go through this with you. I love, love, love shabby chic, always have, always will. My home is filled with you and your ideas. And when someone walks in my home for the first time, they often say it feels like home. Thank you.

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  76. Rachel, some people in life are purely inspirational in all they do, and I firmly believe you are one of these people. If not for you, I would never have started creating the artwork I create. My home would not be so warm and inviting. You inspire people to be inspired, not just to replicate. I often find myself looking at something in my house thinking "What would Rachel Ashwell do here?" Then I think "she'd say "Keep it, it's YOU".

    No matter what, you will continue to inspire, especially in tough times.

    I live in Australia, and I travelled to the US in October/November last year for the first time. The first thing on my TO SEE list, was to visit your Santa Monica store. I think of it every time I dry my hands with the towel on your gold crown hook.

    I am so excited to hear you are releasing a new book. I read your books from cover to cover, then bookmark them everywhere.

    Thank you for the inspiration, the calmness, and for continuing to tough it out in hard times.

    Natasha xo

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  77. Dear Rachel,

    We had to close our small publishing business of 15 years in December--12 employees -- we're on Dumpster #6 of cleaning out (another terrific landlord who has been amazing...). Thank you for articulating the feelings so well--especially the comparison of what your office was and what it is (spreadsheets!)...and the people who surprise you - those who show up with support and those who vanish . . .

    I am immersing myself in *your* books as reminders of "what could be" among the stacks banker boxes temporarily taking over our home (we have to stand up to change the channel *over* the boxes...definitely not the way to decorate) and we figure out what it is we're doing for the next 20 years.

    Staying in the day, as regrets for yesterday and fears of tomorrow will sap all strength for what is in front of you right now . . . thanks for your honesty in posting - it's been very helpful.

    Best, Gail

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  78. God never closes a door without opening another one...keep the Faith!!
    God Bless and Keep you!
    Lilly

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  79. My jaw dropped and my heart sank today when i was having a coffee with my friend and she said, you must have heard about Shabby Chic?!, well i hadn't and i am so sorry that this is happening to you but you will find your way through this.. Shabby Chic has been a huge part of my life since 2000 when i was a young 22 yr old bride who had just received a huge box filled with Shabby Chic sheets, pillows, books, the works!.. The style slowly became my passion.. my NYC apartment had to have just the right chandelier in the bedroom.. really only white washed furniture will do.. These days, after a long day of struggling with toddlers, I get them all tucked into to bed and then retire to my Shabby Chic bed, my little piece of heaven, my chandelier dimly lit above me, the city lights behind my soft curtains in front of me, and there as simple as it is, I am safe, I am happy. I can't say any other person or company or concept can make me feel as whole and secure and comfortable with the world around me than yours can. You have more than a business, you have materialized "om" xx Elena

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  80. I'd like to send Rachel a gift from wee card company. Can you email me an address to send it to? email to elena@weecardcompany.com Kind Regards, Elena McCoy

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  81. My husband and I were just pondering your company and he said, "She'll come back with a huge bang and it'll be better than ever!"

    Not that you need it, but we would like to invite you to be part of our new venture. I wouldn't normally leave this kind of message in a blog comment but I wasn't sure how to contact you :) If you have a moment, take a look at www.frenchcupboard.com We'd love to have you as an honorary member (no fees, of course!).

    Praying with you as you are venturing into new terriority too. Blessings.. Polly

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  82. Rachel, I have admired your products for over 15 years. I remember seeing your fabrics in Victoria Magazine, and calling and asking where can I get this? You are a true inspiration! I absolutly love, love your products! I love your Newport Beach Store, and your employees know me by name. I am so saddened to hear about your company. You, your family, and your company will be in my prayers. (For selfish reasons too! I cant imagine not being able to buy anymore duvet covers. I own about 10& counting!) You, and your company will pull through! May God Bless You Always!

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  83. Sweet Rachel, .Please do not lose faith in yourself...Remember who you are and take comfort from your unique abilities. When ever I lose all hope I say these simply words.
    "This Too Shall Pass"....
    Shabby Chic will always exist, its a part of our culture.

    I'm anxiously awaiting your next book, I will be the first in line for a copy...
    Always, love & Friendship,
    Jo-Anne Coletti
    www.vintagerosecollection.com

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  84. Rachel...
    YOU have always been ahead of the times! YOU have been an inspiration to us all! Your then is someone's NOW. YOU will always be a leader. The beauty of the future is what you stand for, the loved and the soul. It is our bumps along the way that makes us shine. YOU are a star. YOU will always shine and YOU make us shine.
    My heart is smiling at you!
    Janet
    FrenchBlue & Co.
    p.s. did anyone find a 2009 gold border calendar at the Hampton Store. I need one SO BADLY!!

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  85. Dear Rachel,

    So sorry to hear the news; I admire your honesty so much.
    I am a huge fan of you and I can not tell you how much you inspired me! Three years ago we moved (from Europe) to the USA and I missed "home" so much, I was so homesick...
    One day I walked in one of your stores and it opened my heart;
    The products, fabrics, softness and beauty....!!
    I was so determined to change my house in a (shabby chic)home and from that day I felt more "home". I tried to give my house a "soul" just like you always do and I think I succeeded!

    Keep the faith, Shabby Chic will live forever..!

    Thinking on you,
    Caroline

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  86. I have no doubt there will be a light at the end of the tunnel for you... And along with all your other loyal customers and friends, I will be there, cheering you on when that day comes... Donna @ An Enchanted Cottage

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  87. My father used to tell me when we fall down it is easy to cry and give up, but it takes courage to pick oneself up, pat the dust off, swallow the tears,keep putting one foot in front of the other and move forward to the end. You have the courage and I am sure that, though there will be ups and downs, you will come through in the end better than ever!

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  88. Dear Rachell,

    You started a design movement that used your resourcefulness, style and grace. Many women are still identifying themselves and their homes as "Shabby Chic" and you can not walk into a boutique or quaint antique store without thinking of you.

    I'm sure you will once again use your resources to see your way through.

    I wish you well!

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  89. I was a fan of Shabby Chic from the very beginning,going after it and using the product as impetus for opening my own store. However, when the decision was made to put the Shabby Chic label into Target, and then to have cheap reproductions manufactured in China, rather than encouraging the original idea of recycling the old, tattered, and charming, I knew the brand was toast,. These are two opposing ideas, and that dichotomy can not sustain a marketing idea. So,Rachel, you should have been true to your brilliant and original idea, and not sink the ship by turning around and doing the opposite of what you say you are all about! You will have to distance yourself from that kind of cheapness "Made in China " kind of thing, to bring back the original elegance of the brand.At least you are able to keep a few of your stores open!

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  90. Rachel, you and your story & your business have been an inspiration to me. I'ev never commented before but I just want you to know how much you've touched people's lives y ou don't even know. I started my interior design business a couple of years ago & just kept thinking of you & your story. I know you'll make it through this & create something amazing out of all of this. You have that gift. good luck & we're with you!!!
    xoxo,
    Lauren Liess

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  91. Dear Sweet Rachel - There is no doubt about your talent and your ability to inspire. None of this has changed. I so admire the courage and strength you are demonstrating as you go through this rough patch. And I predict that one day in the near future, you will be a shining example of how to weather the storm and come out stronger on the other side.

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  92. "Elegance is refusal" Coco Chanel
    once said.
    You are great and what you have done so far is great.
    Your greatest fan and friend
    LOLLO

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  93. Good luck to you; I admire you and the brand you have created. I am sure things will work out for you.

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  94. I can't wait to see your new book and buy one! How about some more dvd's too! I know you'll only be stronger from this, and with every closed door there is an open one .

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  95. Another note~ Rachel you are an inspiration to so many, including myself, my home is lovely and comfortable thanks to shabby chic.You have so much to be proud of !!

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  96. Rachel you have always looked at things and been able to see the beauty underneath and nothing can ever change that.

    You will survive this. Stay positive and best of luck.
    Sue (Tasmania,Australia)

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  97. Rachel, when your TV program was on the Style Network, I watched it everyday. I actually got up at 6 am to watch and tape it. One of the greatest lessons I took from the show was to find what I love, to trust my own taste and decorate, create, entertain with it. I know that trusting your own taste and doing what you love was what started Shabby Chic and inspired us all so! I know that same love and taste will see you through.
    With enormous admiration and support,
    ~Marilee

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  98. Thank you for reading our comments from your blog. You have influenced my home and life so much, and it's wonderful to be able to tell you! I can't wait for your new book- I hang on to every word and picture from your other books. Bruce Springsteen is amazing... (yeah New Jersey!)

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  99. Rachel, The strength you are showing through such a difficult time is a great example to everyone at a time when so many people are experiencing financial losses. Accepting the trials of life with grace seems to fit in with the Shabby Chic style seamlessly. We all learn and recover from these trials line upon line. Praying for many blessings to come your way.
    Robin

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  100. There's no way Shabby Chic is going away, we're not going to let that happen so don't you worry. You just do what you need to do, stick to your high standards of quality, and it will all work out.
    p.s.
    Keep putting out those DVDs and I'll keep giving them 5 star reviews on Amazon! ;-)

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  101. This experience can't take your spirit or creativity. You did it before, you'll do it again....we are responding to the warmth and peace or you/your vision. Maybe when things calm down, your supporters could send what they thought were the roadblocks that occurred. Kind of an online focus group. I think your vision was duplicated-perhaps more cheaply-because the cost was fairly high and the stores not accessible to middle america...

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  102. Hi Rachael,. I see things from a spiritual level. not looking at this situation from economic conditions...I know all this is for the best because in the end what matters is what difference you have made in this world & how you touched others hearts..Someone once told me when you change you go from side to side but when you grow you go up...You are only go UP now!!!! xoxoxo laura
    p.s. I am the gal that made the rose necklaces in the birds nest..

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  103. dear rachel-i've admired your work/vision since i first visited santa monica store 15 yrs ago; i'm on the east coast now and i marvel that your style/look has become part of the vernacular; that's amazing; you captured and shaped the zeitgeist for many many years. i adore shabby chic look-it summons nostalgia for bygone times, simplicity, comfort, coziness; the very antithesis of ostentatious. i have your books; i managed to buy a few item from greenwich store; you will emerge from this and continue to lead with your unique vision. you are an original and i believe we'll see plenty more from you. jennifer

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  104. Rachel: I live in Canada and two years ago we went to California. My family all had things they wanted to do and see once we were there and I only asked for one thing - to see Shabby Chic. I called it my mecca. I got my day and went to your store and just loved it. I stayed for over an hour just absorbing it all. I love what you represent, what you espouse and there is a place for you in this economy. Please believe and don't give up because one day I may be able to get back to mecca and I want it still to be there. We are thinking of you. Patricia

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  105. Rachel: Two years ago my family and I travelled from Canada to California and we all had things we wanted to do once we were there but I had only one request; to come to Shabby Chic. I called it my mecca. When I finally got to your store I was in awe and spent over an hour just absorbing it all. I love what you represent, espouse, and I want you to know that you are needed in this economy. I want to come to mecca again one day and I hope to meet you there. Patricia

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  106. The hard times people are facing today do not diminish their love and enjoyment of your ideas and styles. I will be looking forward to your new book in the Fall. It will be a welcome addition to the collection I have of your previous books.

    Pallas

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  107. Rachel,
    You are such a huge inspiration to so, so many people! You have truly changed lives...I know you have mine! I absolutely adore the Shabby Chic style and I plan on surrounding myself with it for the rest of my life!!
    Please know that you have countless people rooting for you and we know you'll come through these hard times stronger and better than ever!

    xo
    Dara

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  108. Dear Rachel - I am so sorry that you are having any sorts of business problems and most selfishly that the store in Austin is closing. I have loved every minute I have ever spent there with all the great team that works/worked there. We have had a lot of fun stretching my budget to the limit and decorating my house. You have been my inspiration for a long long time and I am so thankful for all the treasures I have gained from you and your design genius. My Shabby Chic has brought me enormous comfort through good and not so good times of my own. My best to you and I know you will survive this and come back with a flair!

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  109. Dear Rachel - Thank you for all the beauty you have brought into my life and those that share it with m e. I wish you the best in the coming months of reorganization. I am so sorry to have the Austin store close and hope it will be first on your list for reopening. The team there are the best and we have had lots of fun stretching my budget and decorating my home. Please reopen the store by next Christmas. Otherwise how will I ever match the amazing gifts I gave everyone from there in 2008. We're all cheering for you!

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  110. It was "Shabby Chic" that made my think about decorating my home in a way I had never thought about...and openned up a passion for me that has become greater with each year. While my tastes continue to evolve...my love for white walls and white sofas are as great as ever. However, of all the things you ever brought to "market"...what I loved most was coming across a magazine article that was about your own home(s) as it made everything so real. Looking forward to your new book...

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  111. I haven't blogged here in awhile....read your latest and instanley was reminded when I met you at a book signing.

    It was some years ago at your store in Newport Beach - you had a new book out - a new store and I'm sure life was enormous in so many ways for you during this time...

    I remember asking you to sign my book and commenting that I thought you were brillant in your designs and creativity - that I just LOVED Shabby Chic. You smiled - looked down and then said to me with such sincerity - "Oh,thank you, but you know, God has blessed me and I am grateful that I am able to share all these lovely things."

    Rachel - I have met a few "celebraties" in my lifetime but it was very comforting to see that someone who's talent is known world round - to be very humble and grateful for all that they have attained. God has truly blessed you and you have given back. For it will be that foundation and your sincerity that will rise you to a new day and the beliefs and faith in your heart that will sustain you during this time.

    You are treasured.

    Renee Cummings

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  112. Dear Rachel,
    even though we have never met I always think of you as an inspiration to make the best of what life offers. I am so happy to find a strengthening in your voice here on the blog. I have always found that through hard times something good comes.

    I look forward to your book! Isn´t the Universe a peculiar force, when you are at a low point and asks for strength and maybe even to be spared the Universe sends you creativity. There is no doubt in my mind that you, Rachel, were put on this earth for a very special reason. And your journey have just begun!

    Sending you my warmest best wishes.
    Love Linda from Sweden

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  113. Hi Rachel..you have been an inspiration to so many. I remember when i first saw your show on E and then bought the books. I could not believe what i was seeing and all the wonderful ideas and inspiration you had and still do of course. Sometimes things happen that our out of our control but they happen for a reason. I am thrilled to hear you are doing another book and lets hope you can get back to what you love most. Mel xxx

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  114. Rachel,
    I don't know if you will get this blog since it's on an older post. If by chance you do I have great confidence in your business sense. You have transpired and evolved into an amazing icon. Your talent has caused transformations from the simplest homes to the rich & famous. As a business woman you have encouraged many woman myself being one of them. I have been desperately trying to open a small little retail shop for the past five years. It seems to be one obstacle after another yet I keep going forward. You will do the same I'm sure. Follow your own instincts. Maybe you shuld consider franchising. Anyone wishing to open their own retail shop that would mimic romantic inspired decor would have the "Shabby Chic" logo backing them.
    With great respect
    Marie

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  115. I must admit your attitude is one to be admired through this turmoil. Your attitude will definitely benefit you and your employees to find the right answers . You made your company so successful you will do it again. This economy is affecting everyone . One lesson to be learned by me and others is we got way to much to soon. Living well beyond are means, ect. For business you get excited you want to share your success ( stores) with everyone. Now we have to prioritize and hold onto what is important to us and appreciate it, nurture it, and even if it is just one store, or 2 and does not carry all the dreams and ideas we have, slowly we will build it. You made the right decision with Chapter 11. It is reconsolidating. Just taking a step back . Looking, learning, and taking control. Good luck to you and remember how many peoples homes you have inspired and still do.Still will. mishelle

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  116. There is so much I would like to say, but for the sake of brevity just know that I love what you have given to the world. Shabby Chic is more than a company, it is a clearly defined state of mind, and will never disappear, even if some of the stores have dark windows now. Thank you for helping so many of us find the joy, and grace, in being happy as we purposefully "shabby" our decorating.

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  117. I am so sad about the news. My entire house is filled with lighting, candles, bedding and many pieces of furniture over the years from your store. I know that you will prevail, your loyal customers will be waiting for all your new and creative ideas to emerge. If I as a fellow business owner could give you some advice it would be to take a look at what worked best when you started your business and go back to basics. I noticed business rapidly decreasing in the past couple of years myself and after taking a good look back at what made us successful to begin with and that is what I am doing now. I have gone back to basics. Unfortunately I am doing with only myself which is not easy and many long days and weekends, but that is how I started and I did everything on my own and I believe that will be what will help us emerge just like I know you will emerge from all of this. I have learned in the past 5 months of not only struggling to rebuild my business but going thru the loss of my fiance "That which does not kill you makes you stronger" Never a truer statement. Best of luck to you Rachel! I will be so excited to see your first new items once you reemerge and I will be one of the first in line to get it, hopefully in my favorite Santa Monica store.

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  118. Best of luck to you. You will always be an inspiration too many. Remember that sometimes it is darkest just before the dawn and this restructuring could be the housecleaning your business needed.

    Warm regards.

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  119. Having been through something similar on a much smaller scale, step by step is the way to go. You are not only so talented, but so encouraging. We can't wait to see the huge opportunity that awaits you on the other side.

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  120. Rachel, I have loved your look for so long. I have many of your pieces throughout my home and my livingroom looks like something in your books! Thank you for being so honest with this. I have been a portrait photographer for 25 years and have struggled for the last 4. We also own a custome frame shop which I'm not sure will last through the year. I too fear loosing everything. Even so we can move on and do the next thing! Good luck I know you will do great things in the future.

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  121. Dear Rachel,
    I have been living under a rock these days because I just found out that you have filed for bankruptsy!
    Im soo sorry to hear of your distress and just want you to know that I have had hard times in my life as well and I do no that you can survive this!
    You really are a creative genius and have fulled the creative souls in many of us to have our own little shabby shops via ebay, etsy, or shabby lane shopes... or where ever you may find us. I think your style is what got most of us going in this buisness.
    You have come to far to give up now.
    I realize there are ups and downs in buisness, trends change, what was the rage last year is not this but your style is classic and I have found since I have my own website that there is this sort of cult follwing of ladies out there who refuse to let the modern style/pottery barn look rule their households!
    We still want the pink and the fruff and all that the shabby chic movement gave us.
    I suppose my only suggestion to you would to be to make your beautiful items more afordable for us. We love your target line and wish you would expand it.
    Its something most can afford,especially in these difficult times.
    Granted I know nothing about big buisness and I know nothing about how to run a corportation but I see these ladies who buy and I see them go crazy for pink rose sheets on ebay because I made my living room curtains out of them and they want to do the same thing. they can make curtains, pillows etcc out of them, pretty pink fabrics that doesnt look like it should be in a little girls room is hard to find.
    There is a market out there for your things but I think it really is in the lower price point market.
    Perhaps when the trend surges again you can capitalize on that but for now Im sure if you make it affordable they will buy!!!
    and ill be the first!!!!
    Please dont give up,
    Life is full on new beginnings,
    what ever new start you choose to take next... well, I pray that its the best one yet!
    hugs and smiles,
    Sandy

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  122. More that twenty years ago. we filed bankruptcy too. It was a familial shame, and we were devastated. It was truly not our fault, as we were owed some millions and had been overruled by partners during the credit accepting phase, so we had no choice. We started a new company and changed the important details. American "pioneer spirit" and "British stiff upper lip" carried us through. We are successful today.

    I have also dealt with the death of my husband's lovely English parents. We closed up a life of ninety five years and a truly shabby chic existence. I had to go through everything that was so personal to them and decide what to keep and what to sell. We shipped many things to the states and many lovely things were given away, and the rest was sold at auction. It was draining and I felt so guilty as a daughter-in-law , going through their most personal things. I still weep at the thought. We then sold their sweet house. It was such a perfect place that we found notes people had tacked on the door saying that they wanted to buy the house. This was before we even listed the house, but people knew that my in-laws had passed on and they wanted the house. We had 16 offers and never had to even bother with advertising. It sold for an enormous sum, which makes me weep, too, because it was simply their home. My mother-in-law was so typically British, always making do and never getting anything "new" because "the old oven still worked". They lived through the war - he as an officer gone overseas five years, she was bombed out of London - so buying the latest thing just seemed silly to them. They had marvelous things. Books, china, well-worn furniture, a sweet watercolor painting of a long-forgotten tree in a little meadow. So lovely.

    We now are fortunate to have some special old treasures from England and some lovely new treasures from Shabby Chic. I look forward to your revitalized Shabby Chic, Rachel.

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  123. Dear Miss Ashwell,
    First, thank you for my nest. Thank you for helping to make my home a place where people walk in and the first thing they say is, "It's cozy." I'll be praying for comfort and strength for you as you face all of the challenges on your plate. My comfort in tough times is knowing that God is still in control. I believe that He cares about even the tiniest little things in our lives, not to mention our great sorrows. As I was reading your latest blog entry, my cat, who had been curled up on the sofa all day, was going around the house moaning, with his deep rolling, "MEOOOW." I could not quiet him. He came back into the family room and started nudging his head on a stack of design books I have on an antique footstool in front of a bookcase. Included in that stack are my 3 beautiful Shabby Chic books. : )

    Best regards,
    Julie M. Anderson

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  124. wow-you have so many people -that love what you are and love what you do-go girl.

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  125. Rachel - It's so true that we grow the MOST through our difficult times. You have inspired so many women to reach for their shabby chic dreams and we will be behind you, if only in spirit, every day. You have allowed us to embrace our femininity and our strengths and to live life with beautiful thoughtfulness. You are my HERO!!

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  126. Rachel, I'm sorry to hear the hard things you are going through. I admire your strength, I'm sure you probably have your days of weakness, too, but life does this to us. I think we are all in a way going through the same things, with our economical state, but I think that with strength of character, some creative energy, some ability to rise to the occasion, the hard things make people stronger. We end up with wisdom and a story to tell, each of our stories unique. It's the learning through it, the living above it, that will get us through, with the help of the Lord. Karen

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  127. Hi! My name is Andrea Santos, I am Brazilian born 31 December 1975, about 2 years I discovered through your site, how magnificent is the shabby chic, and how important is an old phone, when I see one in my view the home, today it is fully decorated in the style shabby chic, buy many antique furniture, outside those that belonged to my grandparents and great-grandparents, then retrieve all, and I leave the same the way I want, the hand methods in the mass and let the extremely beautiful, scraped, shabby, but for use estramamente impeccable, I love the shabby chic, today I can say that is my life ....
    Thanks!
    A big kiss ...
    Andréa

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  128. I will be anxiuosly awaiting your new book and all the new things to come for your business! It's always hard to close a door on the past, but it is true - when a door closes a new one opens! Best wishes on your new adventures!

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  129. I´m very sad to hear about all your problems. You put life in my dreams of building a Chabby Chic life and store here in Sweden. You give me courage to proceed and now I´m on my way! My biggest dream is having your products here in Sweden, so keep on going! My thoughts will be with you...

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  130. Dear Rachel... you have been an inspiring woman to watch over the years. I have always wished I had the gumption to do what you have already done. So, even though I am sure you are hurting and wondering and feeling like you are in a fog sometimes, just remember - you CAN do it.. what every needs doing you can do it. Like you said.. all it takes in one step at a time. I love to look at your books even though its not totally my 'look' .. but I always get a spark of an idea from them.. My favorite is the Gift book. Take care of yourself during this time. And I am sure the gutsy woman that started the shabby look will get through it all.

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  131. Such a moving post, You and your staff are true inspiration, soldiering on, I am so looking forward to your next book.

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  132. Hi Rachel , As I read your blog, like others, I am reminded of the day I closed my store Lil'Folly Shop August, 2008 (Vintage Home Furnishings and Accessories, Long Island, NY). This was a tough year for so many retailers and the signs were apparent many months prior...I had many conversations with customers, wondering what I had done wrong..purchase the wrong merchandise, showcased it the wrong way..That I came to find was never the problem in fact customers were so loyal and saddened they loved every aspect of the store..I found that they were quite the opposite to my sadness almost optimistic about what I was doing next! I couldn't imagine that at the time! but with time the experience of running the store afforded me the strength to scale down and find that running a store was not what I really loved to do but decorating and working with people on a design level was what I enjoyed! I think you are a wonderful designer and have a magnificent eye for fabrics, colors and furnishings..remind yourself of what you love and your motivation for your next endeavor with flourish! Trust me..talent never goes bankrupt! Your success is the happiness you feel from the things you love to do! Maria Marra www.lilfollyshop.com

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  133. Shabby Chic isn't just things or a place...it's a lifestyle and a way of thinking that you have showed the world...I know that all will be well for you, and I wish you strength during the difficult times. happytrails!

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  134. I, too, was so saddened when I heard your news, like so many others out there. I remember during a summer off from college, sitting in my bedroom, and watching your show on TV...and a light went on...I knew what my style was. I immediately went out and began buying up items at thrifts stores, antique shops, flea markets and the like...painting, distressing, lightening, brightening, everything in my little world. And I haven't stopped since. You, literally, were the one who inspired my creative endeavors...and are the inspiration that has gotten me where I am today. I know this offering is small, but I just wanted you to know that...and that, I will be thinking of and praying for the life of Shabby Chic...

    And I will be the first in line to get your new book when it comes out! {I already have all the others}

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  135. i ADORE that picture of you.you will make it through this-note:not 'get over it'-THROUGH it and you will be stronger than ever! you are our shabby chic queen! keep the faith-we love you and your style :] ann-marie

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  136. "Sadness is but a wall between two gardens."

    Kahlil Gibran

    Everything will be OK.

    Kim

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  137. Dear Racheal,
    Want to offer you some encouragement during this valley you call your life right now...
    Believe it or not, up until a few years ago I had never heard the phrase shabby chic. I had had gall bladde surgery and was going thru"the change" whatever that is :) and decided to do something totally outside the box in regards to redecorating my living room. I put these beautiful swirls on the walls with wallboard "mud" and painted over it with a creamy ivory/pink color. I was beautiful!! I was taken with the timeworn look of the walls and I went yard sale/flea market crazy! The room is now filled with lovely items with a story (history) behind them. Means a lot to me that they seem to now have an extended life. At any rate, I began to buy magazines that have that sort of romantic cottage style and viola!!! I found out you had "invented" what I just sort of stumbled upon. Shabby Chic has been more than a label or a brand name of lovely things... it is, as I discovered, who I am. Closing stores or "black and white" paper cannot take that away from you Racheal. You are a very creative, beautiful young woman who has given all of us, (who love the timeworn charm of things forgotten and pushed aside) the ideas and products to express who we really are. I am forever grateful.

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  138. To the Sweet at shabby Chic,
    I have been a fan from the beginning. . . I look at a beauitiful painting every day that i purchased at the Santa Monica store and shipped to Sacramento, I sleep every night on my many s.c. sheets and duvets that have comforted me through good nights and bad for years, even before I could really afford them. I have always known that they were a small luxury that would help me end one day and start another at peace. I wish all of you that same peace to follow you on the journey that you are on. I will remain a faithful shabby chic customer, fan, and promoter.

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  139. I love everything you sell
    sure wish I could afford to buy more..
    you have so many beautiful things..
    I now live by the beach and remember seeing your beach home .. was so lovely.

    Chin up ..things will work out for the best..
    I look forward to seeing your latest book .

    Mandy
    xx

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  140. Rachel, wishing you all the best for the future, I am such a fan! I love your philosophy and all you do. I have many of your beautiful products in my home,I appreciate the wonderful quality. I live out of country and have ordered many times from your stores and online store. I am so looking forward to your next book, as well I would love to see all of your series on dvd as I was never able to see your show on tv. Love your blog as well. thank you for your honesty, you are truly an inspiration in so many ways.

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  141. Dear Rachel,

    This moment of time is simply another chapter in your beautiful life - one that may end up being a few pages long but eventually ending and preceding a NEW chapter of which you have not written... YET. Oh but you will - and something tells me that each page will be filled with discovery, beauty, and hope.

    Don't look back - we are here with you and for you - turning your pages and holding your hand each step of the way.

    Love,
    Kim
    deardaisycottage.com

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  142. I so hope that Shabby Chic remains around for a very long time. I have many pieces from your line, including the Elegant Sofa my mom bought us when we were first married, which is loved DAILY! My entire house is slipcovered, thanks to your model of easy of living. We LOVE Shabby Chic! My children are still babies, but I hope someday, when they are grown, to purchase them their own starter Shabby Chic pieces so my grandchildren can enjoy them as much as their parents did.

    May God bless you.

    Amy Miraflor and family
    Stockton, CA

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  143. I just know you're gonna reinvent yourself...and you'll come out of the cococoon just as lovely as ever.


    I wish you had time to discover some of our kindred spirit blogs.!!!

    Blessings.

    I remember selling your books in my store before anyone had even heard of you...now it's a household word.

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  144. Hi Rachel,
    I can only imagine how you feel. It kills me to imagine you looking at black and white spreadsheets instead of your usual eye candy. I can't wait for your next book and know that everything will be alright. No matter what you do it will be gorgeous and we'll want it! Maybe write a book about business? I've always admired your moves.
    I know it's not easy now that the world's in disarray so I'm sending over prayers and love that you straighten it out and get back to your beautiful work.
    Claudia

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  145. Dear Ms. Ashwell

    You gave a name to a decorating style...which put an end to being questioned "what do you want that for? or a white sofa, what are you thinking? Had been saving for your studio loveseat, and chairs...

    Like many I've enjoyed your books and t.v. and inspiration and am very sorry to hear of your current situation.
    As a creative person you will prevail and send you all the best.

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  146. I can think of no wiser words that your other 148 commentators have voiced.

    You are the one that had inspired & help put me on a road to creativity. I saw your style and it totally drove me insane with wanting to hit the road to find treasures as yours.

    Thank you and we all look forward to many many more years of Rachel and "Shabby Chic".

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  147. Please know that I hold you and yours in prayer, dearest Rachel, that you will traverse this rocky path with your signature style and grace, making beauty with each step. I have all of your books, and eagerly await the next -- from time to time, I gather all of them and find such pleasure and serenity as I leaf through their pages, breathing in the loveliness and inspiration. That alone is a gift you've given to so many people you've never met. I feel confident that you'll find your way through this challenge and you will thrive, whatever unfolds. You are loved by many.

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  148. "Keep calm & carry on", Rachel!
    You will make it & get through this: It might be humbling at times, but it'll only do good in the end!
    Maybe the enthusiasm you had years ago, will come back & the "little things" will again make you happy!
    I have admired you from 10 years back, when I moved to this country & "found" your style. Your books have been my guide & inspiration;- over & over again! My sincere wishes for you!

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  149. Rachel...I just came across your blog a few minutes ago and was saddened to hear of your troubles. I was initially inspired by you when I saw your book on a friend's coffee table about 7 years ago. I quickly went out and bought all of your books and proceeded to mark the pages with sticky notes...I just love your seemingly effortless sense of style and taste. I had always loved interior decoration and design, but it was at that point that I actually decided to persue my dream and enter interior design school. Here it is, about six years later, and I have finally graduated. I am persuing my dream and am working for an architectural firm as a designer. Times are not great and I may not have this job for long, but for now I am hanging in there...dreaming of what my future holds. So when I logged on to your site I was so surprised to see that your company is filing for chapter 11. I just want you to know that my thoughts are with you and I am truly sorry...I cannot imagine how you must be feeling. But I also want to say thank you. Thank you for being an example of a strong woman who has made so much of herself and for inspiring so many, including myself. Thank you and I wish you, your family and all of your employees the best. My thoughts are with you all.
    Best, Stacey

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  150. I have all of your books and have admired your creative spirit for many years.

    All the best for a wonderfully successful re-entry of Shabby Chic.

    I look forward to your new book in the fall.

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  151. Your products are so beautiful and help to make such a lovely home that I know you will come through this. I was devastated when I saw that your beautiful new Boston store was closing, but I know you will be back better than ever.

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  152. Dear Rachel,

    So sad to hear this. But maybe there is a even greater opportunity around the corner. Thank you for stepping out and showing us all how we can see the beauty in every day things. You have influence a whole worldwide trend- Thanks. Inspiring and seeing the beauty in all. Will be looking forward to seeing all your latest.

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  153. A beautiful entry in a such a heartfelt/difficult time.
    You are an inspiration, perhaps even more so than your stores!
    I look forward to your newest book and hope for the lovely possibility of a book signing again!

    With Kindness,
    Mary
    *when i have awaken in the night to my fears, i turn to my faith, i pray the Our Father. For me, it calms me and my worries for my children or husband are replaced with peace.

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  154. Your black and white papers say one thing but all these people here say quite another ~ I do hope you know what a huge positive influence you have been on soooo many people. We all wait very impatiently for your new book and as my English mum used to say "chin up"
    Alicia :0)

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  155. Rachel! My sisters and I love your decorating! And love to collect your beautiful linens. I was in your Newport store today an was told that store too will close. Are all of your stores closing?

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  156. Dear Rachel,
    I was incredibly sad to hear that Shabby Chic is in trouble. I said to my husband: "this can't be happening" There is absolutely no replacement for Shabby Chic. Its not like a Circuit City. There is nothing else even remotely similar to Shabby Chic. The beautiful fabrics, designs and fabrics, style and spirit. I'm not religious but I'll be praying for a recovery!

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  157. Rachel I am so sorry that we have never met. As a fellow Brit in business I feel your journey. I have shopped at your Santa Monica store for close to 20 years and when we opened our own store opposite yours on Montana Avenue I loved looking across at your cosy, sweet 'home'. Shabby Chic will be missed on the street and in my life. i wish you all the best and am visualising an amazing 'next steps' for you. Good Luck! Jane Wurwand, Dermalogica.

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  158. Rachel,
    I am so sorry and heartbroken for you! Please do what you can to come back-- this world needs you!!!!

    xo

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  159. I was very sad to hear all of your stores will be closing. I had high hopes the California stores would not, as I'm sure others did too. You have been such an inspiration to so many people over the last 20 years and there is no doubt that you will continue to be an inspiration when you make your return. I look forward to seeing what you do next and to reading your new book. I wish you nothing but the best.

    sincerely,
    a Shabby Chic fan

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  160. I just found out a few moments ago about the Chapter 11 filing and I'm so sad. My husband and I were in the Atlanta store the day they were closing, and we still hadn't processed the shock of that. There were so many things I wanted to buy, but the economy started shaking around the time the Atlanta store opened, and we just couldn't afford to purchase anything.

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  161. I also wanted to thank you for the beautiful Christmas you gave to me... I purchased 75 of your vintage ornaments from your store this past Christmas, and, now I have a Shabby Chic tree! I love you, Miss Rachel and I do not want your stores to close... Shabby Chic has become my lifestyle and you are my hero!

    Love,
    Karen

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  162. Dear Rachel,

    We love your stuff and are truly sorry about your closing. Restructure and bring it back! We have been loyal customers for years and will come visit when you "rise again ..".

    Please help us as I write you on your custom L shaped Queen size pullout sofa purchased at your Santa Monica store: we have called your store repeatedly, we need new slipcovers for this sofa and for our 6 Shabby Chic dining room chairs... we have been waiting for your factory to re-open for two months now. Can you direct us to your factory contact so we can properly recover these beauties?

    Thanks very much. Take care of yourself.
    mcshep@post.harvard.edu

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  163. Dear Rachel,

    We love your stuff and are truly sorry about your closing. Restructure and bring it back! We have been loyal customers for years and will come visit when you "rise again ..".

    Please help us as I write you on your custom L shaped Queen size pullout sofa purchased at your Santa Monica store: we have called your store repeatedly, we need new slipcovers for this sofa and for our 6 Shabby Chic dining room chairs... we have been waiting for your factory to re-open for two months now. Can you direct us to your factory contact so we can properly recover these beauties?

    Thanks very much. Take care of yourself.
    mcshep@post.harvard.edu

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